Well it sure feels like it! You have 253 posts, have you ever come across this problem? Most people with anxiety tell me that once they got into a good relationship, it reduced their anxiety. I'm the complete opposite, I'm laid back, as stress-free as can be, I have normal relationships but once I'm hardcore in love, I get so anxious that the only way I can feel better is to avoid the object of my affection..Why?! It makes absolutely no sense.