Love-induced vomiting..Help!

[EMAR]

No, I definitely don't fall in love within 5 minutes. Let's say I'm fine when I first meet the person (because I'm not in love) and as time passes, I develop an infatuation for the guy and it's at this point that I can't move forward. Just think of someone you knew, that moment when you realized you were attracted to them. Normal people would start flirting, I run to the bathroom and barf! Can't keep the conversation going, can't tell the person what's wrong, and obviously the guy's going to get offended if I disappear every 3 minutes.

[laurentellez]

I remember being madly In love about ten years ago. When I wasn't with her, my heart would beat thinking of her. Real love lol

Thats soo cute Jason

[Ryaan]

You be aight nigguh, your probly just stressed to begin with

[frankzito]

Thats soo cute Jason

Thank you dear Lauren :-)

[frankzito]

You be aight nigguh, your probly just stressed to begin with

If your saying what I think your saying? That's funny shit lol

[EMAR]

I feel like a freak because I still haven't met anyone who's gone through this, no one I can identify with. I guess I'll just stick to "safe" relationships that make me feel normal and in control...,But they're so dull in comparison!

[frankzito]

I feel like a freak because I still haven't met anyone who's gone through this, no one I can identify with. I guess I'll just stick to "safe" relationships that make me feel normal and in control...,But they're so dull in comparison!

I'm sure your not the only one :-)

[EMAR]

Well it sure feels like it! You have 253 posts, have you ever come across this problem? Most people with anxiety tell me that once they got into a good relationship, it reduced their anxiety. I'm the complete opposite, I'm laid back, as stress-free as can be, I have normal relationships but once I'm hardcore in love, I get so anxious that the only way I can feel better is to avoid the object of my affection..Why?! It makes absolutely no sense.

[frankzito]

I myself have not, or nobody I've been with. At least not that I knew of .

[EMAR]

You see! So alone...And freakish.

I actually wonder what would happen if by some miracle I got past the vomiting and flirting to actual sex. Would I faint or die during sex, lol? I haven't even gotten that far to know how much more serious my problem can get. Christ!

I'll try and use some of the techniques on this forum but I don't feel like I have the same problems..