babylove123
08-28-2012, 06:21 PM
Depression really sucks!
Although i can say im better than i was. Back when i was pregnant i had very bad depression bc of situations i was going thru...
But after i had my daughter i got better bc she brought me such joy!
Im not saying GO HAVE BABIES or anything lol thats just what helped me.
Also having a job helps bc it takes my mind off things.
But sometimes i just dont feel like getting out of bed, i'll take my daughter to school knowing that i have house chores to get done & i will sadly lay there until its time to pick her up.
& i will eat all day long...
& watch tv...sometimes i will be watching tv & have to rewind it bc im so zoned out & my mind is other places.
I tend to dwell on negative things & it eats away at me!
Having really bad anxiety on top of depression is the horrible.
Idk what to do to get myself going in the morning.
I feel like i have absolutly no motivation to do anything unless its something that needs to be done for my daughter.
I have no problem cooking her something to eat or washing her clothes , or making sure she looks way cuter than all the other kids at school every morning...but when it comes to me...my clothes pile up, i'll just grab a bag of chips for dinner & go to work looking like a hot mess.
Any advice on how to get motivated? Or any other advice?
Although i can say im better than i was. Back when i was pregnant i had very bad depression bc of situations i was going thru...
But after i had my daughter i got better bc she brought me such joy!
Im not saying GO HAVE BABIES or anything lol thats just what helped me.
Also having a job helps bc it takes my mind off things.
But sometimes i just dont feel like getting out of bed, i'll take my daughter to school knowing that i have house chores to get done & i will sadly lay there until its time to pick her up.
& i will eat all day long...
& watch tv...sometimes i will be watching tv & have to rewind it bc im so zoned out & my mind is other places.
I tend to dwell on negative things & it eats away at me!
Having really bad anxiety on top of depression is the horrible.
Idk what to do to get myself going in the morning.
I feel like i have absolutly no motivation to do anything unless its something that needs to be done for my daughter.
I have no problem cooking her something to eat or washing her clothes , or making sure she looks way cuter than all the other kids at school every morning...but when it comes to me...my clothes pile up, i'll just grab a bag of chips for dinner & go to work looking like a hot mess.
Any advice on how to get motivated? Or any other advice?