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filetmignon
08-03-2012, 06:02 PM
hello, all. i am new here, and found this forum by googling "anxiety forum". i was originally going to post in a hypochondria forum, but it's been inactive for a while now, so i hope you don't mind if i post my story here (p.s. idk if i even have hypochondria/anxiety [haven't been to the dr in awhile], i'm just assuming that it's a possibility bc i always think i have a serious disease even if i just have a mild symptom; i end up crying/having my heart rate increase/feeling really anxious, etc.)

for starters, i'm a 16-year-old female. i think i'll just number things based on what i think i have

1: uti - i was masturbating about two weeks ago. i was sliding one of my fingers along my butt crack, and i was going to put another finger in my vagina, but i accidentally dipped the finger i used to touch my butt crack, in my vagina. it was only slightly bc i immediately pulled it out once i realized what finger i was using. after i pulled it out, my vagina felt weird/uncomfortable after. everything's fine until a week later i'm masturbating and i have that same feeling afterward, except i didn't do anything wrong this time. few days after that, i'm peeing and i feel this slight burn when i'm peeing. everything's fine when i'm done, and i haven't had any uti symptoms since

2: something wrong with my kidneys - two years ago, i had to have a kidney ultrasound bc my blood pressure was slightly higher than avg for my age. they found a tiny spot on one my kidneys, but the dr said it was nothing to worry about. when i really have to pee, i go easily, no problem, but if i'm sitting on the toilet for a while, and i feel there's a small amount of pee that still needs to come out, it takes about a minute for it to start coming out; i have to really relax for it to come out. and just while typing this, i have noticed a slight pressure/pain on the left side of my lower back. the pressure/pain's there for literally one second, goes away, and then comes back a minute (or two) later

3: acid reflux disease - back in september 2011, for almost two weeks i had been waking up feeling nauseous in the morning. 95% of the time i ended up feeling both nauseous and throwing up stomach acid, 5% i was just nauseous. all the nausea and vomiting went away within 20 minutes if i sipped on some water and slowly ate some saltine crackers, though. then i could go on merrily with my day. when i was googling about my morning nausea/vomiting, i found out if you sleep on your left side, all that will go away. and it indeed worked, but ever since i started sleeping on my left side, i've waken up in the middle of the night always having to poop. i can feel this weird uncomfortable feeling in my stomach that makes it seem like i've held it in for too long. that feeling immediately goes away once i sit down on the toilet, though. most of time i have to sit on the toilet for 30 minutes before anything comes out, and when i think i'm done, and i go lay on my left side to sleep, the urge to poop comes back. a normal urge, this time. also, i love singing a lot, but i always sing improperly bc i've never had a voice lesson in my life. i always tend to gravitate towards male broadway songs. yesterday near the end of the day, i had already sung a normal amount. i was talking, and then my voice randomly cracked. so, i tried singing a little, and i was good for a bit, but then my voice randomly cracked. the voice cracking only happened three times, but my throat had a very slight ache (NOT in a sore throat kinda way) afterwards and felt "empty". today i have had no voice cracking or ache in the throat, but my throat still feels "empty". i also should add that i'm not overweight, but our family eats very unhealthy (i'm starting a diet soon, though)

if anyone could suggest whether or not i should go to the dr, that'd be great, bc i'm really worried. TIA. :)

Ash17
08-04-2012, 08:37 AM
Hey I'm new here too and also 16. Why don't you ask your parents to take you to the doctor so they can see if you truly have anxiety. And if your parents don't know you suffer from anxiety you should tell them because it can ruin your life. Telling my parents was so hard for me but I had to tell her! And my life is getting better because I'm getting help.

filetmignon
08-10-2012, 07:10 PM
Hey I'm new here too and also 16. Why don't you ask your parents to take you to the doctor so they can see if you truly have anxiety. And if your parents don't know you suffer from anxiety you should tell them because it can ruin your life. Telling my parents was so hard for me but I had to tell her! And my life is getting better because I'm getting help.

Small world, huh? :)

I told my mom a couple weeks back that I thought I was depressed and had thanatophobia and needed to go see a therapist. She was reluctant at first but after a while of pestering her, she eventually gave in. Then my depressive and thanatophobic symptoms went away, and I thought I was fine for a bit bc everything seemed all and well with me, so I decided to forgo seeing a therapist bc I didn't wanna waste their time if there really wasn't anything wrong with me, then these hypochondriatic(?) symptoms crept up one me, which I did alert her of, but I can't tell if she took it seriously or not (tbf, I just slipped it past her and wasn't getting the point of "yes, I may have anxiety and need to see a therapist" across to her). I'm just afraid if she schedules an appt with a therapist, the symptoms will go away by that time, and it'll be an ongoing process of my symptoms going away then coming back, etc., and me not getting the help I need.

I'm so glad you had the courage to tell your parents! That's a great thing. :) I'm also glad your life's getting better bc you're getting help. No one deserves to have anxiety take over their life. I wish all the best for you.

Thank you so much for your help! I really appreciate it.

I'm planning on talking to her seriously about all this this week, so *fingers crossed* it goes well.