I'm both. Thinks its a healthy balance. Big heart which hurts & helps me. They go hand in hand though because i don't fight out of anger or anything. I only fight to defend the ones i love. I had a few people get in my face back in high school but i just don't see the point. Anger is drainin and id rather go work out or something lol so many people waste their time and energy bein mad when it could be spent on more important things. Plus half the time when you look back, you forget why you were angry or you realize it was stupid and petty. I recently learned this. Maybe 2-3yrs ago.