jmuecke12
06-21-2010, 05:45 PM
Hello all.
I am coming here on the forum to seek advice/knowledge about anxiety.
I am always the positive one of my friends on the outside but have finally broke it down inside and think I have some kind of anxiety.
I am constantly the worry-wort in my head. :unsure:
I tend to release this most on my relationship and my boyfriend. It tends to be the thing that I have the most anxiety about as well, my relationship. I tend to obsess over it, let it always occupy my thoughts, over analyze everything my boyfriend says/does, wonder if we will work/be happy together, want everything to be perfect always, etc.
I have irrational fears of being cheated on, of things getting "old" between us, of him not being the best man for me, him not being attracted to me anymore (or vice versa), of him not being totally happy with me but settling because I'm the best he will probably get, etc. :roll:
I also have nightmares about him cheating on me. (I have been cheated on in every relationship I have been in also. - But I don't really have self esteem issues about it and think I'm quite a catch!) :tongue:
I can't get these thoughts to leave my head when they enter. I also have fears about my career, money, friendships, etc.
Please help with any advice you have... :mrgreen:
I am coming here on the forum to seek advice/knowledge about anxiety.
I am always the positive one of my friends on the outside but have finally broke it down inside and think I have some kind of anxiety.
I am constantly the worry-wort in my head. :unsure:
I tend to release this most on my relationship and my boyfriend. It tends to be the thing that I have the most anxiety about as well, my relationship. I tend to obsess over it, let it always occupy my thoughts, over analyze everything my boyfriend says/does, wonder if we will work/be happy together, want everything to be perfect always, etc.
I have irrational fears of being cheated on, of things getting "old" between us, of him not being the best man for me, him not being attracted to me anymore (or vice versa), of him not being totally happy with me but settling because I'm the best he will probably get, etc. :roll:
I also have nightmares about him cheating on me. (I have been cheated on in every relationship I have been in also. - But I don't really have self esteem issues about it and think I'm quite a catch!) :tongue:
I can't get these thoughts to leave my head when they enter. I also have fears about my career, money, friendships, etc.
Please help with any advice you have... :mrgreen: