Living on my own for the 2nd time in my life and fearful of possibly being exploited.

[sorrownomore]

Mods please delete!

[Kirk]

I think your concerns are legit. If he makes any type of advance to you, I would be nice about it, but make it clear you have no interest in any
man, but just women. I would also act like you don't know anything and don't jump to any decisions until you are forced to. I would play everything
by ear and see what happens over time.