Em-jay Morales
09-05-2015, 12:08 AM
Hi everyone, I'm 30 years old with a wonderful life not until my husband and I encounter trouble in our marriage.
Due to a mistake 4 months ago, my husband has had an experience with a prostitute while drunk. He confessed about what happened to me only last 3 weeks ago. Scared of getting an STD we did the screening in the clinic and fortunately we are both negative, Thanks god. I was very angry and devastated, I provoked him of an annulment of which after a week of realization was not pursued for the benefit of our boys, a 7 and 2 years old.
During that time, I started feeling nervous every night whenever I'm at the office, since I'm working on a night shift I always wanted to go home during midshift. until i started to mention the feelings I have with my husband not knowing that he also feels nervousness same as what I'm feeling for a couple of nights. I said that I wanted to see a physician.
One day I noticed, how lonely he was. he never eat, sleep and uncomfortable. I then started to google the symptoms and found out about anxiety and panic disorder. I was able to recover mine but not his anxiety and series of attacks. He mostly experience dizziness, light headedness, nausea ,numbness of arms and feet. So we booked a marriage counselor hoping that it will felt better on him, unfortunately no changes. I then booked a psychiatrist and he was given a medication and that's a relief.
I'm here to seek help and support to better understand what we are dealing with right now.
Due to a mistake 4 months ago, my husband has had an experience with a prostitute while drunk. He confessed about what happened to me only last 3 weeks ago. Scared of getting an STD we did the screening in the clinic and fortunately we are both negative, Thanks god. I was very angry and devastated, I provoked him of an annulment of which after a week of realization was not pursued for the benefit of our boys, a 7 and 2 years old.
During that time, I started feeling nervous every night whenever I'm at the office, since I'm working on a night shift I always wanted to go home during midshift. until i started to mention the feelings I have with my husband not knowing that he also feels nervousness same as what I'm feeling for a couple of nights. I said that I wanted to see a physician.
One day I noticed, how lonely he was. he never eat, sleep and uncomfortable. I then started to google the symptoms and found out about anxiety and panic disorder. I was able to recover mine but not his anxiety and series of attacks. He mostly experience dizziness, light headedness, nausea ,numbness of arms and feet. So we booked a marriage counselor hoping that it will felt better on him, unfortunately no changes. I then booked a psychiatrist and he was given a medication and that's a relief.
I'm here to seek help and support to better understand what we are dealing with right now.