PHUNG
08-04-2008, 03:48 PM
Hi everybody,
First I would like to tell you guys 3 years ago, I had so much anxiety and fears in my life I didn't go out, didn't see my relatives, didn't go to my brother wedding, etc, etc, etc.... It was hell. And I can understand the pain you guys are going through.
Here is my cure! You can't find any books that will tell you this is the problem either.
1. Judge self vs Judge other!
"It is when a child learn how to judge other they lose their innocence!"
The problem with this society is people judge other people more than they judge them self! This mean, if you spend 75% of your life judging other people, you will understand 75% of their life and you will only know little of who you are!
Imagine a cat were to spend his life judging a dog. Why is the dog bigger than me? Why does the dog has bigger teeth? , Why is a dog faster than me? etc, etc, etc,
Because the cat choose to judge other, he will create insecurities about himself and these insecurities will produce fears and fears turn into hatred!
However, fear will turn into anxiety for those with a kind heart!
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This judge other is like a virus. 90% of society is compose of people who judge other. They judge other so much they don't even know who they are anymore! They lose their identity because they judge other and forgot themself, and now they look at society to give them identity!
But to make this short and to share with you all my secret!
Those of you who have anxiety because you can't stop judging other! You guys are smart people because you could judge other people and see their flaws, etc, etc, etc..... Imagine now, you can turn that judging other into judging yourself and see how much you will learn about yourself. See why you are scared of the things you are scared. See why you are the way you are. Start judging yourself! You guys can cure your anxiety by judging yourself.
Trust me, you will belong to a unique group of people who judge them self. All the millionaire houses are unique. No 2 are the same. However all the common people houses are the same! why is that?
people who judge other have a say for everything. But when it comes down to understanding them self they are lost. People who judge other, produce insecurities in them self, and create fears, and bring hatred and anxiety into this world.
People who judge them self, must search society ways in order to create identity! Society tell you how to act, how to dress, how to live on a certain standard! And because you lose your identity, this is what you become, you choose what society has to offer and you mix and match and call it yourself!
JUDGE YOURSELF !!!!
First I would like to tell you guys 3 years ago, I had so much anxiety and fears in my life I didn't go out, didn't see my relatives, didn't go to my brother wedding, etc, etc, etc.... It was hell. And I can understand the pain you guys are going through.
Here is my cure! You can't find any books that will tell you this is the problem either.
1. Judge self vs Judge other!
"It is when a child learn how to judge other they lose their innocence!"
The problem with this society is people judge other people more than they judge them self! This mean, if you spend 75% of your life judging other people, you will understand 75% of their life and you will only know little of who you are!
Imagine a cat were to spend his life judging a dog. Why is the dog bigger than me? Why does the dog has bigger teeth? , Why is a dog faster than me? etc, etc, etc,
Because the cat choose to judge other, he will create insecurities about himself and these insecurities will produce fears and fears turn into hatred!
However, fear will turn into anxiety for those with a kind heart!
************************************************** ********
This judge other is like a virus. 90% of society is compose of people who judge other. They judge other so much they don't even know who they are anymore! They lose their identity because they judge other and forgot themself, and now they look at society to give them identity!
But to make this short and to share with you all my secret!
Those of you who have anxiety because you can't stop judging other! You guys are smart people because you could judge other people and see their flaws, etc, etc, etc..... Imagine now, you can turn that judging other into judging yourself and see how much you will learn about yourself. See why you are scared of the things you are scared. See why you are the way you are. Start judging yourself! You guys can cure your anxiety by judging yourself.
Trust me, you will belong to a unique group of people who judge them self. All the millionaire houses are unique. No 2 are the same. However all the common people houses are the same! why is that?
people who judge other have a say for everything. But when it comes down to understanding them self they are lost. People who judge other, produce insecurities in them self, and create fears, and bring hatred and anxiety into this world.
People who judge them self, must search society ways in order to create identity! Society tell you how to act, how to dress, how to live on a certain standard! And because you lose your identity, this is what you become, you choose what society has to offer and you mix and match and call it yourself!
JUDGE YOURSELF !!!!