Tranquil
01-03-2015, 07:20 PM
It seems I've created my own world of fear again. The world just feels weird to me again, especially when I go outside. I don't feel SAFE. I don't have panic when I go outside but I just feel like the world is a big scary place now. Just like in 2008 when I had multiple MAJOR life changes. I can't say it's agoraphobia b/c I don't have actual panic attacks or anything when I go out but I don't feel SAFE out there. I really dislike the way I feel and don't want to live like this. I try to tell myself that it won't last forever. I feel pretty good in the evenings and I've gotten rid of the stomach upset and racing heartbeat for the most part (at least under control) but I can't get rid of this big scary world feeling. I got rid of the feeling once (in 2009) and I thought it was gone for good, but it was by using denial from something specific happening in my life. Now I feel this feeling again however I don't know how to get rid of it this time. Two months ago I was fine, now I'm not. Yes, I had a trigger but it has died down now. I don't know when this will go away. If it will ever go away. Until I feel safe again in the world, I am apathetic towards most everything now. It is difficult to get myself going and it doesn't help that the little bit that I do have to do, is all done outside. :(
I did notice that when I am highly anxious about my world that I cannot even turn the tv on. I don't feel "safe" watching any tv shows at all, let alone the news. I cannot take in even some of my favorite tv shows in the past. In one sense, this is a good thing b/c now I'm spending more time reading and meditating... in another sense, I have lost touch with the world and I find myself even retreating from family members and anywhere I don't feel safe which seems to currently only be my bedroom at the time and mostly only in the evenings. If you see me post during the day, you might actually hear a different type of person posting b/c each day I hope I will awaken and return to normal, yet the world still feels unsafe since early November. IDK I just want to feel normal again all of the time. I don't even listen to music anymore. I can't believe I had quite a few years in there where I felt strong and confident and things didn't bother me. Now I feel the need to stay "safe"
It is hard to put into words. My perception of the world changed and I don't know how to make it go back. I don't think more medication is the answer. I'm not sure what the answer is but I keep telling myself to take baby steps and just get through one day at a time.
I did notice that when I am highly anxious about my world that I cannot even turn the tv on. I don't feel "safe" watching any tv shows at all, let alone the news. I cannot take in even some of my favorite tv shows in the past. In one sense, this is a good thing b/c now I'm spending more time reading and meditating... in another sense, I have lost touch with the world and I find myself even retreating from family members and anywhere I don't feel safe which seems to currently only be my bedroom at the time and mostly only in the evenings. If you see me post during the day, you might actually hear a different type of person posting b/c each day I hope I will awaken and return to normal, yet the world still feels unsafe since early November. IDK I just want to feel normal again all of the time. I don't even listen to music anymore. I can't believe I had quite a few years in there where I felt strong and confident and things didn't bother me. Now I feel the need to stay "safe"
It is hard to put into words. My perception of the world changed and I don't know how to make it go back. I don't think more medication is the answer. I'm not sure what the answer is but I keep telling myself to take baby steps and just get through one day at a time.