I never thought it would come to this.....

[Exactice]

*Edit* I found a better Solution


There is an IGNORE LIST in your settings, type in the name and poof they are gone ........ Love this feature!

[Dahila]

Yeah I moved already, I mean I am spending time on forums where I am a member for years, forums of respect for others and no fight. Sorry to see you upset E:(

[KellyMN]

can you guys recommend a more active site?

[Exactice]

Yeah I moved already, I mean I am spending time on forums where I am a member for years, forums of respect for others and no fight. Sorry to see you upset E:(

Thank you my friend....I am not going to bail from you guys(completely).....I am just going to refrain from posting or getting baited into posting stupid things...I think I just need a break..... I just cant believe that it would come to this especially a place like here. Anyways I am not upset...just more disappointed and even broken heartened than anything else..... coming here to help others but get slapped in the face is not what I expected.

Take care Dahila, PM or send me a message in chat if you catch me =)

[JohnC]

Hey Exactice, Do not take this stuff to personally you are a good guy and other good folks have left over some stupid stuff. Just ignore and help those you can. Peace my friend
P.S. HAPPY BELATED VETERANS DAY ... thanks for your service

[Dahila]

John I will point you into thread and I would like to know your opinion which I respect:)
http://anxietyforum.net/forum/showthread.php?30241-Ask-me-anything!/page5
post 43 to 49.
Just give me your opinion John, please

[JohnC]

I wouldn't give it a second thought D. I just ignore the ones that get under my skin and move to help others. Life too short for that crap so lets help each other and forget about it. Peace :)

[Exactice]

I wouldn't give it a second thought D. I just ignore the ones that get under my skin and move to help others. Life too short for that crap so lets help each other and forget about it. Peace :)

Thanks John! I know what you mean.....like I said it was a little more saddening than anything else....more so I was humble bit my tongue and still got lashed at. I would rather not be polluted by that. In any case....I am going to continue to help others I assure you that! You are right life is way to short.

Anyways.... YES YES Happy Belated Veterans day out there!

[Exactice]

OH Snap....Actually I found something better.....an Ignore List..... Hmm maybe this may work better than leaving!!!!

Glad I found this rather than making a big mistake of bailing!!!

HMMMM Maybe others can use it toO!!!!

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[Dahila]

I am trying to find it too, where have you find it?

[Dahila]

I am trying to find it too, where have you find it? Never mind, I need just to find the name , the way it is written:))) snap!!!

[Exactice]

I am trying to find it too, where have you find it? Never mind, I need just to find the name , the way it is written:))) snap!!!


Did you find it..... It works for me?!

[jessed03]

Anybody seen Dahila online lately? If so, it means my BLOCK list is working perfectly. Joking, Dahila. :)

I'm glad you're staying anyway, Exactice. You offer many valuable contributions to this site. Can you believe people once had to live on here without an ignore list? One of the best features ever.

I don't know what it is about this forum, but it attracts certain people now again who seem to believe they have sage-like qualities. Anxiety, by it's very nature, is extremely neurotic. Mostly in an innocent way. But still, I think some people get over their symptoms, but not their neurosis. Their ego remains in a heightened state, then they come to a place like this, and their words gain them followers.

From then on in, in that state, it's all down hill.

[Im-Suffering]

Watchwords:

Tolerance
understanding
love
awareness
acceptance


'PanicCured" is frustrated. 'Dr Dan' - while he lasted, was his trigger you see. PanicCured was dormant for some time until Dan was good enough to step in and trigger his feelings toward conventional 'wisdom'. And so PC not realizing the two compliment each other, but believing what Dan said to be nonsense. A little elbow grease and fortitude is whats needed, you see. Now if he is indeed semi-cured, it was that frustration and hence fortitude within himself that led to the remission, at least partly.

One goes the way of his beliefs, period. And saw Dan as a threat you see to his own sticky. Now you certainly better not get into an argument with him, or buck those beliefs. Now Dr Dan has faded you see, so has PC, for it was not you all he was after...

Either way, things are not always as they seem, we are all one, see? Flip the coin of your own identity and you have a little bit of them both, in you...But because you are on one side of the coin you cannot see the other.

Unless I edify you of it.

These are just general remarks.

Allow each their own way, and soon that shall pass too. Inbetween the drama, you have people coming and going who need real encouragement, not threads "I will surely end my stay here", or "I am going where its friendly"

Then you have a new member like the one on page one saying "Where? Where is all this activity, where shall I go" From KellyMN "Can you guys recommend another site?" You see, where are you each using your gifts, in love, in fear, not only are you saying "I will leave!" but you encourage others to as well.

If you leave, leave quietly without fanfare and a party, and when you have had time to think, return quietly, as if you never left. Inbetween do your thinking. Most of you are here now not for the self per se, but the benefit is in the giving, the helping, that is the draw, and that is irresistible, regardless of the temporary setbacks. You should all be used to setbacks, am I correct? :)

Either you are in it to win it, and to stick it out, or not. And in the process you are learning how to have relationships with not only those who you love, but those you hate. And the real learning is in the experience of the latter. For in the hate is a reflection of the self-characteristics that you do not like. An opportunity for self-growth.

I myself am certainly a stubborn, difficult entity to deal with, but you know, sometimes I come out with something that makes sense, you just have to weed through the babble :)

Stick around. Unless you've got better things to do. At 3AM one day soon while you are awake and listless you will peruse the board when the world is quiet.....And like magic you will see a thread "help me"...and you will.....And that is what its all about. My friend Exactice knows this well, those little chats do feel good, don't they?

The fight is in the front lines now. Who will survive? Survive until you decide, not until someone decides for you. And that someone is (labeled) an 'enemy' you don't even understand. Only difference is, the enemy is on the same side as you.

[Dahila]

I am S you right and it is really interesting post:)

[RealisticTrain]

Watchwords:

Tolerance
understanding
love
awareness
acceptance


'PanicCured" is frustrated. 'Dr Dan' - while he lasted, was his trigger you see. PanicCured was dormant for some time until Dan was good enough to step in and trigger his feelings toward conventional 'wisdom'. And so PC not realizing the two compliment each other, but believing what Dan said to be nonsense. A little elbow grease and fortitude is whats needed, you see. Now if he is indeed semi-cured, it was that frustration and hence fortitude within himself that led to the remission, at least partly.

One goes the way of his beliefs, period. And saw Dan as a threat you see to his own sticky. Now you certainly better not get into an argument with him, or buck those beliefs. Now Dr Dan has faded you see, so has PC, for it was not you all he was after...

Either way, things are not always as they seem, we are all one, see? Flip the coin of your own identity and you have a little bit of them both, in you...But because you are on one side of the coin you cannot see the other.

Unless I edify you of it.

These are just general remarks.

Allow each their own way, and soon that shall pass too. Inbetween the drama, you have people coming and going who need real encouragement, not threads "I will surely end my stay here", or "I am going where its friendly"

Then you have a new member like the one on page one saying "Where? Where is all this activity, where shall I go" From KellyMN "Can you guys recommend another site?" You see, where are you each using your gifts, in love, in fear, not only are you saying "I will leave!" but you encourage others to as well.

If you leave, leave quietly without fanfare and a party, and when you have had time to think, return quietly, as if you never left. Inbetween do your thinking. Most of you are here now not for the self per se, but the benefit is in the giving, the helping, that is the draw, and that is irresistible, regardless of the temporary setbacks. You should all be used to setbacks, am I correct? :)

Either you are in it to win it, and to stick it out, or not. And in the process you are learning how to have relationships with not only those who you love, but those you hate. And the real learning is in the experience of the latter. For in the hate is a reflection of the self-characteristics that you do not like. An opportunity for self-growth.

I myself am certainly a stubborn, difficult entity to deal with, but you know, sometimes I come out with something that makes sense, you just have to weed through the babble :)

Stick around. Unless you've got better things to do. At 3AM one day soon while you are awake and listless you will peruse the board when the world is quiet.....And like magic you will see a thread "help me"...and you will.....And that is what its all about. My friend Exactice knows this well, those little chats do feel good, don't they?

The fight is in the front lines now. Who will survive? Survive until you decide, not until someone decides for you. And that someone is (labeled) an 'enemy' you don't even understand. Only difference is, the enemy is on the same side as you.

Sorry for the absence everyone! It had nothing to do with the forum, it was just very busy at the clinic. This time of year we see a lot more people than usual, because of seasonal depression/anxiety. The nights are getting longer and the sun is setting earlier, which can wreak havoc on an individual's circadian rhythm, which can in turn lead to upsetting symptoms. Not to worry though, I'm not going anywhere!
- Dr. Dan

[Im-Suffering]

Sorry for the absence everyone! It had nothing to do with the forum, it was just very busy at the clinic. This time of year we see a lot more people than usual, because of seasonal depression/anxiety. The nights are getting longer and the sun is setting earlier, which can wreak havoc on an individual's circadian rhythm, which can in turn lead to upsetting symptoms. Not to worry though, I'm not going anywhere!
- Dr. Dan

Welcome back (and forth) Dan :)

[Im-Suffering]

I am S you right and it is really interesting post:)

Good to see you !

[Dahila]

Sorry for the absence everyone! It had nothing to do with the forum, it was just very busy at the clinic. This time of year we see a lot more people than usual, because of seasonal depression/anxiety. The nights are getting longer and the sun is setting earlier, which can wreak havoc on an individual's circadian rhythm, which can in turn lead to upsetting symptoms. Not to worry though, I'm not going anywhere!
- Dr. Dan
I am very happy to see you Dan:)))

[Exactice]

Im Suffering, You make a great point, I know what you mean, the sad part is, there is one of those golden rule moments. "If you have nothing nice to say, dont say it at all." Regardless if you disagree, this forum where people need help rather than aggravation, is not the place to display and argue your ego.

I have disagreements with certain things, but I can be tactful about it. More so, I can bite my tongue as to keep the peace and not try to agitate anyone nor raise anyone's anxiety.

In any case, I have hit the Ignore List and its wonderful so I dont have to worry about dealing with our "Friend"


Dan!!!! It is always a pleasure having you here. Yes people may disagree with your methods, but know that there are people that appreciate your openness and helpfulness! Thank you!!!!

[JohnC]

Say guy's.... This is what i been saying just not as eloquent as Im-S :) Ignore the ones that you need to but help the ones we can. Peace all

[Joe.]

Watchwords:

Tolerance
understanding
love
awareness
acceptance


'PanicCured" is frustrated. 'Dr Dan' - while he lasted, was his trigger you see. PanicCured was dormant for some time until Dan was good enough to step in and trigger his feelings toward conventional 'wisdom'. And so PC not realizing the two compliment each other, but believing what Dan said to be nonsense. A little elbow grease and fortitude is whats needed, you see. Now if he is indeed semi-cured, it was that frustration and hence fortitude within himself that led to the remission, at least partly.

One goes the way of his beliefs, period. And saw Dan as a threat you see to his own sticky. Now you certainly better not get into an argument with him, or buck those beliefs. Now Dr Dan has faded you see, so has PC, for it was not you all he was after...

Either way, things are not always as they seem, we are all one, see? Flip the coin of your own identity and you have a little bit of them both, in you...But because you are on one side of the coin you cannot see the other.

Unless I edify you of it.

These are just general remarks.

Allow each their own way, and soon that shall pass too. Inbetween the drama, you have people coming and going who need real encouragement, not threads "I will surely end my stay here", or "I am going where its friendly"

Then you have a new member like the one on page one saying "Where? Where is all this activity, where shall I go" From KellyMN "Can you guys recommend another site?" You see, where are you each using your gifts, in love, in fear, not only are you saying "I will leave!" but you encourage others to as well.

If you leave, leave quietly without fanfare and a party, and when you have had time to think, return quietly, as if you never left. Inbetween do your thinking. Most of you are here now not for the self per se, but the benefit is in the giving, the helping, that is the draw, and that is irresistible, regardless of the temporary setbacks. You should all be used to setbacks, am I correct? :)

Either you are in it to win it, and to stick it out, or not. And in the process you are learning how to have relationships with not only those who you love, but those you hate. And the real learning is in the experience of the latter. For in the hate is a reflection of the self-characteristics that you do not like. An opportunity for self-growth.

I myself am certainly a stubborn, difficult entity to deal with, but you know, sometimes I come out with something that makes sense, you just have to weed through the babble :)

Stick around. Unless you've got better things to do. At 3AM one day soon while you are awake and listless you will peruse the board when the world is quiet.....And like magic you will see a thread "help me"...and you will.....And that is what its all about. My friend Exactice knows this well, those little chats do feel good, don't they?

The fight is in the front lines now. Who will survive? Survive until you decide, not until someone decides for you. And that someone is (labeled) an 'enemy' you don't even understand. Only difference is, the enemy is on the same side as you.

I don't fully know what this fuss is about, but from what i've read, you have a point.

Always enjoy reading your posts

[Exactice]

I don't fully know what this fuss is about, but from what i've read, you have a point.

Always enjoy reading your posts

Sorry Joe, I was offended and was throwing a tantrum LOL..... but the other members are teaching me patience and the IGNORE function.... Another member was causing my anxiety to go through the roof as they were not being very nice LOL

Anyways..... kill them with kindness, if that doesnt work....BLOCK em LOL!