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kateQ
03-21-2014, 09:05 PM
Hi I'm Kate

I've suffered with depression and anxiety for a long time but it's really severe ATM and I'm not coping very well. My mum passed away suddenly last year, my son and myself found her so as you can no doubt imagine it was traumatic. Since then my brother and his wife, a not very pleasant lady to say the least, have scattered my mums ashes behind my back, after months of wrangling. Since I discovered this (last week) I have been suffering severe anxiety attacks at night, and to a lesser extent during the day. I feel like I'm going to literally die when in the grip of an attack. I feel ridiculous but it's frightening. Anyone prepared to talk to me I'd be so grateful.

Dahila
03-21-2014, 09:45 PM
Kate I am sorry you found yourself in this awful situation. Losing my mother was the most traumatic even in my life. I do understand. You will find friends and support here ...

ab123
03-22-2014, 12:06 AM
Hi I'm Kate

I've suffered with depression and anxiety for a long time but it's really severe ATM and I'm not coping very well. My mum passed away suddenly last year, my son and myself found her so as you can no doubt imagine it was traumatic. Since then my brother and his wife, a not very pleasant lady to say the least, have scattered my mums ashes behind my back, after months of wrangling. Since I discovered this (last week) I have been suffering severe anxiety attacks at night, and to a lesser extent during the day. I feel like I'm going to literally die when in the grip of an attack. I feel ridiculous but it's frightening. Anyone prepared to talk to me I'd be so grateful.

I can't believe that happened to you, I wish there was something I could say to make it better but I can't. I can only tell you that you've came to place where there are a lot of people who card about each other and who will do their best to help you. your reaction is normal In your situation. Try to have peace in the fact that your mother is with you no matter where her ashes were spread. and she is watching down on you and doesn't want you to suffer. I hope you can start to heal soon.

needtogetwell
03-22-2014, 04:19 AM
Hi Kate, and welcome!

I couldn't have said it better than Ab did!

My heart goes out to you!

If you need an ear, a shoulder or some suggestions we are all here to help.

Hoping today gives you reason to smile!

Cheers, and again welcome!

Pam