Lover? Fighter? both?

[BrokenWings001]

I'm both. :) Thinks its a healthy balance. Big heart which hurts & helps me. They go hand in hand though because i don't fight out of anger or anything. I only fight to defend the ones i love. I had a few people get in my face back in high school but i just don't see the point. Anger is drainin and id rather go work out or something lol so many people waste their time and energy bein mad when it could be spent on more important things. Plus half the time when you look back, you forget why you were angry or you realize it was stupid and petty. I recently learned this. Maybe 2-3yrs ago.

[BlessedMom]

Both. But probably not in the healthiest way. I'm a SUPER passionate person so whatever I do I do to the max. ( a real problem sometimes ;) ) I wish I could "chill" take things in stride, but I'm definitely a rollercoaster.

[lucy88]

Im both but more of a lover x

[jessed03]

Im both but more of a lover x

I'm glad :) x

[NeverToo...Fear]

Both, pretty much in balance, depending on the day and circumstance. :)

[Dahila]

Both influenced by the weather :))

[Enduronman]

Both, influenced by this forum..NOT!! just kidding!!!....
hmmm...I think I tend to be more of a fighter, and that may not be a good thing.
Although I can love, I can also tear someone apart if I need too even if their my own young.. (part of why I'm here, I have a very short fuse when lit)...

Enjoy this day friends!!

Enduronman.. :)

[lizard0921]

I'm more of a fighter. I wished I was a calm person.

[BrokenWings001]

I'm more of a fighter. I wished I was a calm person.

Everyone has their moments Lizard. The only thing that works for me is an outlet. Working out. Great outlet! :) I use to run 2miles every day. Or ill game with friends. Screw around on the PS3 racing cars and stuff. Or ill think of all the things that are important to me (like my kids) and i slowly calm down.

[lizard0921]

Everyone has their moments Lizard. The only thing that works for me is an outlet. Working out. Great outlet! :) I use to run 2miles every day. Or ill game with friends. Screw around on the PS3 racing cars and stuff. Or ill think of all the things that are important to me (like my kids) and i slowly calm down.

Some people just get me mad sometimes, but I think about it like this, "I'm 24. I'm a mom. I should act like one and ignore stupid people." Even though at times it's so hard to keep quiet lol -____-

[BrokenWings001]

I hear you. Some people can be very irritating but try not to waste your time on them. Instead do what makes you happy and forget about them. :) I'm 25 & a mother of 2. I have days where my fuse is very short lol

[stp4779]

This is a good question, I think I may be 50/50. I think people in this forum are more fighter than they may think... we fight anxiety and depression every day!

[lizard0921]

I hear you. Some people can be very irritating but try not to waste your time on them. Instead do what makes you happy and forget about them. :) I'm 25 & a mother of 2. I have days where my fuse is very short lol

Lol thanks for the advice! You're right...some people aren't worth our time :)

[BrokenWings001]

True and no problem :) anytime

[jessed03]

I'm a fighter, definitely a fighter. Bit in my old age I'm getting kinda tired of battling, so try and be nice to everyone :)