Hi im new. Im Susan

[cat2]

Is is the second time I've had severe anxiety. I feel a
One and isolated. On remeron and klonopin, help

[Enduronman]

Hi Susan!

You're on some excellent medications though!! They aren't helping this anxiety at all????

E-Man...:)

[cat2]

They are some, but the klonopin will have to be reduced. I have fears of buying a home with no cash reserves and living alone. Plus winter and driving a smart car

[fazen]

Hi Susan,

You are not alone, this is a great family. You can share your troubles and worries with us, we will help you through.

[Enduronman]

Anyone who is buying a home is going to have some anxiety, I did!!
So don't spend down allllll your cash reserves..
Don't know much about a smart car, other than my gf borrowed one for awhile..tiny.

E-Man. :)

[Alyssa37]

Hi susan! Im new here to and have found this forum to be very welcoming. You've come to the right place.

[Enduronman]

Welcome Alyssa!!

:)

[fazen]

Hi susan! Im new here to and have found this forum to be very welcoming. You've come to the right place.

Welcome! :-)

[darryl7575]

Hi Susan... A little over three years ago, my wife of 17 years decided that she no longer wanted to be a wife or mother. She walked out and left me with my 7 year old daughter and 14 year old son. I could not afford the house payment alone as we had a pretty nice and expensive home.I was self employed in a business that would soon fail as being a single father would not allow for me to dedicate the time needed for success. It was the most stressful time of my life. Emotionally, financially and in every possibly way. So trust me when I say that I understand. I'm sure it is no help as It wasn't for me when others would say it, but you will get through it. It was during this time that my anxiety issues showed themselves completely. I have always had a bit of anxiety, but after that time in my life, I never recovered in terms of anxiety. My situation did get better and my kids and I are in a great place now. You wouldn't know it by my anxiety, but truly better. I try and tell myself "if this is the worst thing to happen to me this week, I'm just fine" It doesn't always help, but I still say it.

[jjh333]

welcome susan! I think you will find a lot of help here!

[cat2]

Thank you Darryl. Sounds like my story. Losing houses and being displaced. Now I have a place but living alone and anxiety is back.

[cat2]

Thank you, buying a 1969 mobile home with no cash reserve. It I needed a place to stay

[cat2]

Thank you Alyssa. I hope so

[cat2]

They help,some. Winter and driving gives me anxiety

[JoeCool]

Welcome Susan! One day at a time, one moment after the other. You'll find great support here. Use this space as you need to be able to cope. We're all in this together...

[Enduronman]

WOW..After apartment living for 5 years a 1969 mobile home was the first thing I bought too! Lived there for 5 yrs, sold it, and put the money down on this 150 yr old house...wish I'd stayed in the mobile home! $$$$$$'s!!!! :)

[cat2]

Thanks Joe, just found out I have to pay taxes. Anxiety high

[cat2]

Just found out I have to pay taxes today. Ugh

[JoeCool]

Thanks Joe, just found out I have to pay taxes. Anxiety high
Have you ever had to pay? Perhaps not...

[cat2]

No, I took my inheritance to buy a place to live. It's just a cheep 1969!mobile home. Guess I didn't think it out very well. Apt rent was to high

[Enduronman]

I did the same thing years ago too..I loved it!!! 1969 Hollypark 12x65 was what I lived in for years...

Have a great day friend!!

E-Man....:)

[cat2]

So did it work out? I just found out I have to pay taxes for using my Roth to pay for it which is going to cause a financial strain and increases my anxiety.