Enduronman
05-21-2013, 10:01 AM
Because every word I read all added together, forces me to re-visit something from my past. Your stories, somehow have simalarities, to an event, circumstance, or occasion that I had once live with, and consequently lived through. I then recall the thoughts, review the event, recall the outcome, and then either accept it as it is, think of an alternative action that would've been more successful, or dispose of it in its entirity. I learn from everyones troubling issues. I allow myself to step into your shoes for a brief moment, although I have already worn a shoe that is just like your own. I then attempt to present a way of looking at a situation in a way that you may not already see. Its easy for me to look from the inside, outwards and also vice versa. I already know that the answers to my own internal problems or mental disorders as they call them, are within myself to find. I just have to figure out how to find it, if I wish to change the current course of life or the road that its traveling on.
It is true that no person can "fix" another person. What is also true is that another person can help another person to find where the tools are being kept, to remove themselves from the perpetual hell that they are stuck in. That's why there are therapist, psychologist, councelors, that's their ultimate directed path or purpose. That's their job, career, profession, and that's why you speak to them, and pay them too. They're attempting to show you, how to fix, you. The only thing that I can see that may present me with a problem in that area is that I believe it to be extremely difficult if not impossible to get inside of a mind that is trapped in a tormenting and terrifying hell, if they've never been in there themselves. Walked in my shoes...
In closing. I recently saw one of the strongest and thickest walls built around a person, that I have ever seen here. They may have came in here seeking help and support or to offer help and support as well. The problem is that it is impossible for a person that chooses to remain hidden and safe behind these walls, to help others because this person also in turn refuses to allow or permit others to help them, and they know this too. No one will ever be given clearance to approach, without it being perceived as an all out invasion. They will be crushed immediately. Never climbing out from behind these garrison walls and never taking a risk or chance to experience any sort of happiness, will never provide them with this blessing of satisfaction, of any sort, forever. They know who they are. I find this to be saddening because I allowed it too.
The question that was asked, I could not provide the real answer for it was not something that said person wished to ever actually see anyway. They already know the answer anyway...
We are all unique, individual, interesting, and one of a kind.
Thanks for reading and I will try to help in any way I can..
E-Man.
It is true that no person can "fix" another person. What is also true is that another person can help another person to find where the tools are being kept, to remove themselves from the perpetual hell that they are stuck in. That's why there are therapist, psychologist, councelors, that's their ultimate directed path or purpose. That's their job, career, profession, and that's why you speak to them, and pay them too. They're attempting to show you, how to fix, you. The only thing that I can see that may present me with a problem in that area is that I believe it to be extremely difficult if not impossible to get inside of a mind that is trapped in a tormenting and terrifying hell, if they've never been in there themselves. Walked in my shoes...
In closing. I recently saw one of the strongest and thickest walls built around a person, that I have ever seen here. They may have came in here seeking help and support or to offer help and support as well. The problem is that it is impossible for a person that chooses to remain hidden and safe behind these walls, to help others because this person also in turn refuses to allow or permit others to help them, and they know this too. No one will ever be given clearance to approach, without it being perceived as an all out invasion. They will be crushed immediately. Never climbing out from behind these garrison walls and never taking a risk or chance to experience any sort of happiness, will never provide them with this blessing of satisfaction, of any sort, forever. They know who they are. I find this to be saddening because I allowed it too.
The question that was asked, I could not provide the real answer for it was not something that said person wished to ever actually see anyway. They already know the answer anyway...
We are all unique, individual, interesting, and one of a kind.
Thanks for reading and I will try to help in any way I can..
E-Man.