So stressed :(

[jess123]

How can a boyfriend help you with your anxiety as my anxiety stresses him out and I feel like I'm in the wrong when we then have an argument. When I worry I get everything off my chest to him but he can't handle it :(

[anxious123]

Do you stress about your relationship or just everything In general?

[jess123]

My relationship x

[lucy1989]

Maybe he makes u feel wrong in an argument, he may have certain personality characteristics that allow him to do that. Do u also tend to focus all ur attention on him? Us women can do that from time to time.

[jess123]

Yh I think about him lots

[lucy1989]

I can relate to that. It must b frustrating when he doesn't understand ur point of view also.

[jess123]

It feels sad because I don't know if it's my brain ( anxiety) making me think that things have changed between me and my boyfriend or if things really has changed?

[anxious123]

It's your anxiety Hun I have the same problem but when I think about it I know it's me it sucks i know but you have to find a way of pushing those thoughts out just tell yourself he loves you because if he didn't he wouldn't deal with the anxiety

[Rowlz]

Open up to him about it and if he can't understand dont look to him for support. Find a friend that will support you & work with them :)

[lucy1989]

Rowls is exactly right. I'm in the same boat as u. My partner is so shit like that, sometimes I scream out for understanding.. and do u think I get it?? Frustrating!! I'm about to leave him after 7years Co's really a partner should be supportive. I don't know about u but I don't feel comfortable leaning towards friends for support. I don't want to get the name of "the one with the fucked up life"