Thanks Kelly
I hear what you're saying and agree with you. But as most of my insecurities and worries are centred around my partner I find it very hard to confide in him. In the last few days I did indeed try to do just that. The subject was about money. Don't want to bore you with too much background but have mentioned the role he has with his ex's worries me quite a lot. In particular the amount of money he pays to his ex wife and family for upkeep - A LOT!!!! Then that impacts badly on his finances, he gets stressed and ultimately then I do too. When I approached him about it he said what he pays her is "none of my business". I was furious when he said that to me and a very big argument ensued and at the end I thought we were close to finishing. I explained the following morning more what I meant about these money worries and he understands a bit more where I'm coming from but isn't impressed with me right now and I feel I'm paying for it with cold shoulder treatment. This on top of everything else is making me feel very unsettled. Sorry for my ranting hehe