I think regardless of right or wrong, it's best to go with what you feel is best. Unfortanley given today's perception management it's not always easy for people to follow their hearts. Often they find themselves swept away in a sea of other peoples thoughts. Therefore I don't blame anyone either way.
Today I added to my thinking whilst talking with my therapist, it's time to start pondering about about looking into getting a 'Do Not Resuscitate Health Directive.' As it stands, it seems the only right I find I have. All others options are dictated for me.
My thoughts to your thoughts.