Nice one.
Shadowcat you living with your grandma and I do not want to be mean or something but I am grandma too, I love my little one to pieces but when she sleeps over I am really tired........ older people have no patience for youngers. but it means nothing. She loves you but maybe two generation apart is difficult to cross. Calm down and stop analysing, take care of yourself , you are so young do not waste life worrying, please