Hi anxietylife,

I came across your post and want to let you know that you have immense value as a woman. I would post these questions to my daughter. Have you thought about what you want out of a relationship? What kind of man of you want to form a relationship with? Would it be one that respects and values you as the woman you are? That kind of man that would not invite you to his house on the first date. I am not trying to be preachy just trying to offer a different perspective. I don't think your anxiety ruined the first date, I think that perhaps going to a stranger's house would make me anxious as well, and I am a man. :-). I hope these words help and encourage you to seek a man that honors you and respects you.

Sincerely,

Heydad75