PR83, I think your own post proves my point. My advice was simply the old saying that you can't please all of the people all of the time and that is true. It seems like you're trying to characterize me as an "asshole" and you certainly don't know me.
I don't know where you get your 95% statistic, but if you need evidence of how people are very eager to judge strangers just look at the comments section of any website. You'll see ample evidence of true human nature displayed quite clearly.
If you think people don't make petty, random judgements about others that cross their paths in public, in my opinion that is naive.
We'll just have to agree to disagree I suppose.