Yes you can do this! You have made a great start. Keep the steps small and build on them bit by bit. Acknowledge your feelings, good bad and ugly. If you try to do this all at once you will get frustrated, one small win at a time! They build into one great big success story!
Hhhhmmmmmm I agree that would be the best honest way but I'm scared that if she realises I have worked them out again she will feel really pissed of with me .. We are / I am trying to move on and work on our relationship as it's definitely on its last chance ..
Yeah, not sure if it would be the best but then again I can't fathom another way .. I'll sleep on it ....
And I agree about these social apps causing trouble .. you can work out where people are, with who, doing what, for how long, befriending who .. If only I could get paid for that kind of work I am an expert LOL...
Seriously though for me, checking on these sites and taking bits of information from here and there and then creating my own mental jigsaw became / has become literally addictive ..
It is a total disrespect to my partners privacy, and an invasion of her personal stuff .. Its like rummaging through someones draws and going through their stuff..
It must feel awful to have your partner do that to you .. Especially when you have done nothing wrong ..
I could do with some sort of electric shock system that sends a painful shock every time I check ...
I am seriously not going to be so weak again ..
Thank you! I have been here before but also lucky enough to get another chance with my partner .. This IS the last chance though .. I will do this now!
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