I can totally relate. I'm 19 and have never been in a serious relationship. I'm afraid to get close to people and let them see the real me. I like being alone and having space but I know you can't really be like this when in a relationship. I just want a guy who will be able to accept me for being me and respect me as a person and the way I like things.

I think you should give it a try with this new girl because you never know, she might be super cool and accepting of your anxiety. I think you should continue hanging out and going on dates and see how things play out. You might really like her and get to the point where you can open up and share a little bit more of yourself.

Good luck!