I totally understand how you feel. I have a perfect girlfriend and a solid relationship yet I'm constantly worrying about her in a separate college and lately it's been driving me crazy.

It's okay to feel this way. Those of us with anxiety tend to ponder a lot on the negatives and on worse case scenarios when it comes to relationships, even if nothing is going wrong (especially if nothing is going wrong, because we have more to lose).

Well to be honest, a million things can go wrong in a relationship or in your life in general. We live in constant uncertainty and I think it's best to come to terms with that and focus on the present moment. Something I read in a book that I found insightful is you should ask yourself, "What problem do I have right this very moment?" Not next week, not tomorrow, not in 10 seconds. Now. Unless you're in pain, the answer is probably going to be nothing. All our problems are concerned with the future. So, what problem do you have right now in your relationship with your boyfriend? From reading your post, it seems like you have no problem in the present moment, and the present moment is all that exists. Anything can happen in the future and most of it we have no control over, which might be scary, but it can also be very liberating. All that you can do is be good to your man and enjoy the present moment with him, because that's all that exists. I hope this helps at least a little.