Quote Originally Posted by Im-Suffering View Post
Insight: you are deathly afraid of loss of love. And this dates way back, as a child. As a self fulfilling prophecy you will push her away, corroborating your immature childish beliefs of abandonment, loss because it is the child doing the thinking. You have her mixed up with a parent, for the forgotten memories cause the past and present to mesh indistinguishable between the two, you have no clarity who it is your afraid of.

Your thoughts are attracted to you like a magnet, because of your fear. You expect them. The sadness is age old, however you never faced it, so now you unjustly cry for her when the tears are from them, many years ago. You are both in an adult body, and a small child, at once.

Unless this is discovered and healed, you will continue the course. Examine your childhood, and in the meantime tell her to be patient with you, you love her, but your wrestling with unresolved issues, and mention them.

She too has these same issues, so you were attracted to each other, work them out together and your bond will be unbreakable, forever, period, end of insight for you, and it's all you need.


I kind've understand what you mean. We both had many issues the past years and since we've met, we've both grown up tremendously. How can we go about fixing these issues of the past? I have set myself up for therapy and am waiting on a call for an appointment. Any other suggestions?