I feel like I'm going mad :(

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This is in reply to Im-Suffering
Why do some of us have these triggers?? I seem to have had three of them now. I'm on my third, not related to the above poster or OCD.
Do we set them up before birth from a previous incarnation so we can work on things?
I don't understand why some of us have such strong triggers when others seem to go through life without these kinds of events. Does it just
stem back to our childhood for some of us who have not worked out emotional stuff from early on or again something we may have set up before birth?