hi, for example i said to her "i worry that one of those guys will try talking to you again" (about some d-bag from her past) and she says "they know we're dating, i wont talk to them". That sets in the thought in my mind "wait but are they talking to you? cuz i can put them in their place if they are. and are you ignoring them?" etc etc. its just irrational thoughts about how she words certain things. can someone help me cope with this, i just responded to her "ok cool im glad" but its bothering me inside.