I am not single now. However, I married late in life so had a lot of time on my own. I have been married for 11 years. It is tough. I think if you have a good network of friends and family you are better off - at least for now. Marriage takes a looooooot of work!! If there are any major issues or even baggage, you haven't solved anything you have just doubled your stress levels. I know the feeling - I am there. Work out what you need to first. Make sure the person understands your situation and you are compatible on how you deal with and solve problems because make no mistake they will come.