I hope that sounds a little more in tune. For what it's worth I miss you Sal, D, Gypsy, Kirk, and all the others I sense are legitimate individuals. I'm genuinely sorry for my flaws. I kind of expressed my take on how disconnections take place but what's more important is that we harbor no ill will and always willing to reach back out. I do hope for me that, that aspect shows from time to time. I know I have seen such allowances in a each of yourselves as well but understand we all have our limits . That said, I have no expectations other than just putting that out there.
There is just so much division in the world is it any wonder relations are hard to maintain.
I'll try not to be a buzz kill but as always write from the heart with the best of intentions as best I can.
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How am I these days? DOWNSIZING & FULL TIME IN MY ROOMWell, I've downsized so much of late that I actually sold my oversized custom built water cooled pentagon PC in favor for a 15 inch laptop. (ᵒ̤̑ ₀̑ ᵒ̤̑) I just had to do it as I have become more reclusive and needed the space. I won't go into the numbers as I am prone to do but just say I was content to take the hit as I am often willing to do. That computer when put into shelving was taking up so much space in my little room. Alas it was a cool project and I did ensure I was fairly compensated with my laptop more than capable of what I generally do.
My live in bedroom is my latest project. (2.6 meters by 4ish)
I'll spare the raw details of why I am spending so much time in my room of late, but just say I am embracing my choice to do so by way of making myself as comfortable as I can possibly be. I don't know why it took me so long to realize just how important that aspect really be. I think that insight came to mind when I finally got myself a portable air conditioner to cool my room. Immediately the quality of my health started to improve. After making space (still waiting for laptop to arrive) and now using an older and much smaller OptiPlex computer I managed to source myself a small lower recliner. I arranged my 4 foot computer desk, bed and recliner in a way that allows me to fit in a smart tv. I'm still yet to purchase a smart TV but using a little 22 inch monitor for now out put from my little PC. I have a rug in the post on its way. Just the other day a floor lamp arrived with a desk top one as well. I'm just using warm white bulbs that give off yellow light each only at 400lumens. The lighting aspect I intent to delve deeply into with smart bulbs Vs dimmers and an array of spectral options to mimic at will my own circadian rhythm. Of course I still need to go outdoors but am doing so very carefully these days. But with my room it can be hard to set up as I would prefer given the restrictions when it comes to using the walls. Often those renter hooks do more damage than good. Yet I might try myself as was my wife's experience. Best I can say is that the quality of paint is was can make or break the install and uninstall of said hooks. I've been racking my brain on free standing option. lately looking of paper thin mirrors and light garment tapestries.
Another reason I want to downsize to just one room is because I think it will help with respect to codependency during times of crisis when facing the prospect of a sudden move. The turbulent time I had when organising an unplanned visit to my mums regardless of the turmoil that later took place there, when unsupported and my sister in that mix, made me think of how easily I am set upon among my own family when I react in fear no knowing where to go or being in a good position to make a transition. Now with my commuter bicycle fully decked out being the only thing of importance to me in our shed and now the focus of ensuring all I own fits comfortable into one room with all the amenities I need ... means that in the future I can at least be in a position for others to better assist with a quick move. I will never be able to afford renting my own place with how things have no gone. The homeless situation has gone insane post CV. Ensuring I can live comfortably in one room without being a drain on others is pretty much my future aim. That said I am not planning to leave as I do love my close nit family - BUT - given the dynamics in which I live, what I am doing it just empowering myself, keeping out of others ways and for the most part it seems fairly conducive over all. My daughter still has the master bedroom bless her. lol if only I could have an ensuite like that. But then no one would ever see me ... and I really don't want to go that far ... not just yet. : )
Anyways ... I talk more about my live in bedroom project later on.
So much to write about. I've been watching 80s Tv shows like MacGyver, Greatest American Hero. I think I will download Good Times as don't think its being streamed? But in general I've been getting into the phase of seeing myself as an aged person making himself as comfortable as I can watching reruns kind of thing. Does that make sense? The next item I would do well to make space for is an appropriate air filtration unit. Oh boy ... I have been having fun researching that. (ꉺᗜꉺ)... if you know me you can be sure I'll start posting pics once I think I am done. I kind of just leave my room now just for a change of scenery. My mum kind of put it to me like that and it makes a lot of sense. That's pretty much how it is. I'm so thankful my mum is still around. My heart goes out to all those who have had to go through missing their mums. Trust me when I say reconciliation is worth it but then understand in some cases it is not. Not to put a damper on things ... my and my sister fall into latter. Just saying with my mum I will miss her very much and have been very grateful about our reconnection since my loss of my brother. That is all. That's why I want to reconnect with those I think it's worth it regarding the opening of my post but remain accepting if such feeling is not mutual. All good.
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I best go out in the yard as I see some sun. Good time to stretch my legs and check my plants before coming back in.