Had a good day. Got of few things done off the computer, and had some solid but fun game play. Miss the little fella, but he is back tommorow. Hope to help him unwind and decompress from his visit. Hopefully his Dad is making more of an effort to accept the lad for who is. Sadly he does not acknowedge the boys difficulties. That said, I think the older he gets, the more embarresed the father will get, and the more negitive the father's responses will be. Last time my grandson went without food, because food is somthing his father uses to punish his kids. You either eat what he gives or you eat nothing. That my friends is a form of abuse. Espiecally with ASD kids known to struggle with selective eating. Is very hard to remain optimistic for the little one in order not to project all one's griefe. He hugged me so hard and long this morning before leaving, whilst I did my best to instill optimisim. Yet my wife and I let the little fella he can tell us anything he needs to re discofort as well. On that, he just says his dad is angry and mean. I know what being like that is, but I never be that way with my kids. Maybe for briefe moments when tbey ate adults and care only about themselve, but NEVER when they were little defensless kids. Patents today ignore thier kids and defend the right to beat them. Nothinh but abusers those kind be. You can easily pick them. Even the one's that try and hide it. Militant, relgious, idealistic and politcally minded types. In that I know well anger and meaness. It spreads like wildfire spawn fron such evil types.
Soon. Soon he will be six. We will see hin through six more years and he will then be old enough for welfare to no longer send hin into a place he deems unfit. At least in that we now know how to educate the kids of abuse and how build a case against said abusers.
You hit your kids? You starve them too? I would not doubt it. The world is full of abusers. Trouble is, the system is as much to blame. Those of us that are left affected no well the BS on both sides of the fense. Alas ... is best to just pick up the peices from those that let you assist ... BUT ... never give up by allow abusers to carry on unmarked. You know patents that yell, smack, beat and starve tbier kids ... call them out. I do it in public any time I see parents standing over thier kids.
Even the well to do wannabes, that hold down 3 to 4 jobs ... just throw them a stare when you see them all disjointed because thier kids are too much work. Fucking selfish society ... the best dressed topping the most self centered. Passive agressive types that abuse in acctable ways. Pffft.
Sigh ... time to meditate.
Namista or however the fuck you say it.
Love light and what the fuck ever.
Just let that shit go!
Sigh.
Night night ... zzzzzzzzzzzzzz