Hi!
I have no Idea how to begin so Im just gonna start writing. Im having strange feelings almost every day. Its really hard to describe, I feel guilty, but I cant find a cause. I regret almost every single negative thing Ive done. Mostly I regret that Im at home all day and not doing any sports, but I dont feel productive, so I never went outside. Sometimes I even want to commit suicide cause I cant take it anymore. It all started roughly 2,5 years ago. Right now Im 15 years old, so it started when I was 12. My parents are divorced and back then I was used to live for a week at my moms, then for a week at dads. When I started having those feelings, they were always stronger when I was at my dads house. I cant tell why, Ive never expierienced something bad or horrible there. The feeling was getting more and more intense, I cried myself to sleep countless times. Then I decided to do something about it. So I moved to my moms and visited my dads house only at weekends or holidays. It went good for like a month or two, but then I started having the feeling at my moms too, and was getting worse and worse. At the beginning of grade 9, we got a new student in our class. The most people from our class liked him, so we took him with us when we went to the city. Well, we got to know him and we found out that he drank and smoked cigarettes and weed. Most of us were shocked. In our class nobody ever even thought of ever doing something like that.But he was a nice guy, so we remained friends with him. At one birtday party, he asked me if i want to go to a market (I think you could call it a black market) located in my city. It sounded pretty interesting, so I agreed. We went there the next day but unfortunately all the stands there were empty. So we decided to come back sometimes. The next day we went again, but on the way there, he asked me if i didnt want to try weed. I dont know why, but I said ok. So we went to the centre, where the most tourists are and started to look around. We actuay managed to find a dealer and bought some. After that night I started to smoke almost every 2nd day. After some time I realized my feelings went away almost completely. Later then my friend got a girlfriend and stopped to smoke, but I found new friends and continued. About 2 weeks before the holidays I talked with my mom about it. She organized a Psychologist for me, but I quit after 2 lessons because it was useless. My mom and him said its just puberty, but I dont really believe it.Then the Summerholidays came. Me and my friends didnt have any chance to meet so I didnt smoke a single time through the whole holidays. After roughly 2 months of being clean the feeling returned, and it was worse than before. I started to have a strange feeling when I was in the city in a crowd. I felt unreal, like if every sound didnt go into my ear, but around it. Everything I touched felt like im not really touching it. My head was heavy and I started to blink super fast without realizing it. I reseached a bit on the internet and came to "anxiety" and "derealization".These two terms described my feelings pretty accurately, so thats why im here in this forum.
I have no idea what to do so Im here asking you guys for help. Any idea what it could be? Feel free to ask, I will answer
Im not a native english speaker so my english isnt that good. Im not that good at describing sorry for that. Anyways, thanks for reading till here.