How does an Ape think and what analysis was used to read it's thoughts? lol

You need to detach from the experience and stop clinging to it. It's like an addiction - Your mind is feeding it.

Not sure the car analogy is a good simile for what you are describing.

If you wan't a car analogy - then I would simply just say "Slow Down!"

Get off the freeway and go find some space to better observe from a new perspective. Forget about seeing the same car - put yourself in a place where there are none!

Good luck with that.