So my daughter is going off to college in NYC in a few weeks. (We live about an hour away). She wants me to come to move her into her dorm, and I want to see where she is living. But I have been having a really hard time traveling lately. NYC is not an easy place for e..too big, too tall, very overwhelming. I'd probably be ok if I could get dropped off at her building and picked up there, but move in day is pretty chaotic from what I hear and security tells you where you have to park (which might not be near her building) and I'd have to get dumped on the street to stay with the stuff while my husband finds a parking garage blocks away. Then once I get her in, I'd have to walk to where ever the car was parked. Even if he got the car to pick me up, security doesn't let you back on the block. I feel like the worst mom and the biggest loser. Anyone else ever been in this situation?? I am so upset and haven't even told her yet that I probably can't make it.