I am living a lie..and need to leave my husband, or roommate rather. Everyone i personally know tell me I'm crazy for not leaving yet. But my 7 yr old freaks when he hears the word divorce. I don't understand why they can't see that it kills me to see him hurt. I know what that feels like. But over five years of seriously nothing from him...is driving me crazy. I'm only in my early 40's. I don't want to have to settle for this. I don't want to hurt my children either. I need support. ..bad.