Do you have anything you enjoy doing? I have yet to find something lol
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Do you have anything you enjoy doing? I have yet to find something lol
No I can't find the joy in things , I am COMPLEATLY lost x
I know it ain't easy. Been there when a previous relationship went wrong (even though it was my own fault)
I was a mess for some 6 months after the split and during this period, nothing, bar NOTHING interested me whatsoever. My world was a very dark and dingy place and it was so hard going to work or even talking to people.
It's a state of mind that is powerful enough to overthrow just about everything... but of course, all was well in the end.
Whatever it is that's REALLY bugging you has to be dealt with... and until you do, things will just carry on as they are... forever.
Dark times often require brave and drastic action.
I don't know if I'm in love or have just become totally dependent. I believe it is love, but I fear it's the latter.
Ahhhhhhhhh... now... here's a problem.
The definition of love, or LURRRVVVVVV.
To be taken wildly across the kitchen table or just someone to sit and watch emerdale farm with every night?
To me, love is lost when you look at them and don't fancy them anymore... this might sound shallow, but it's always been the case for me.
When you kiss, do your lips still tingle a little or is it just a formality in the morning as you see them off to work?
I tingle all over when we kiss and my heart burns with desire when i think of him BUT I dont trust him completely and I need him too much.
OOOh, the passion's still there then...
Love is the whole package though int it. I mean, you gotta fancy them, but you've gotta be able to converse, have fun with, get pissed with, share interests, TRUST, care for and it's gotta be mutual.
It's not healthy to want someone SOOO much, especially if you don't get the same from them.
It's also not healthy to be with someone who's up their own arse... like, they know they're good looking and this makes them arragant / ignorant. It's unlikely they'll change. (Leopard / spots)
Perhaps you should have a chat and voice your concerns? nothing like the truth...
Hmmm not sure I'm quite ready for that
Depression gets me aswel, I'm just starting to pull myself out of it, I don't think the problem here is the relationship I think the problem is routine! Lol I've done the same thing day in, day out for 2 straight years, I ended up with no meaning to life, but these past few days I've been getting better n better! I've made sure I've got something to do everyday, gym, see the parents, I've applied for college and just applied to be a volunteer, the only person that can pull you out of this is you, my nest venture is getting a bike and having a ride with naturethat's my goal of the week (also I've got a gypsy wedding to go to tomorrow that's gunna give me a lot of amusement LOL) I think you need to give your life meaning again, I've noticed I'm feeling better everyday, break the routine!
Fuck I'm drunk..lolOriginally Posted by jhunter89
Righht, ok then, errmmm... not sure what the problem is really...errr...
Hmmmm..
The one thing that always gets blokes going is the thought of losing their lay-dee...so, play hard to get or pretend you're not interested and he'll come begging.
(Also, give it some bare leg on the sofa... sit with ya bare legs crossed looking all seductive but innocent. Works every time ;-) )
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