I have noticed that punks only respect you if you are willing to hurt them. But what if i decided not to hurt punks so i dont end up in jail? I need better options. I want only the best for me and my unborn
How about being the bigger person and just walking away from people like that? Find some people who respect you and who treat you with kindness. These punks don't sound like their worth your time.
Walking away from a punk who wants to bully you can make you feel a little powerless. However, one good way to circumvent this feeling is to realize that the bully(s) will sooner or later mess with the wrong person and get what's coming to them.
Many bullies love picking on only people who they think are weak and won't fight back. But the thing is that some people who appear weak aren't. So a bully may think he's messing with someone who is weak, only to find out the hard way that their victim is stronger than he appears. Just ask one bully back in high school who I knew. He decided to start picking on one student who he thought was weak. Instead, this student ended up beating the heck out of the bully.
Walk away in defiance. You may feel week because you didn't fight, however in the long run you won.
Its like if your driving and someone comes by blowing the horn and giving you the finger, nothing is going to make them madder than you just smiling and waving. It is the same thing with bullies, they are looking for a rise, if you want give it to them then they get frustrated.
The best way to deal with bullies is to show them that they can't get to you, if they realize that then their entire point is mute and they are the ones who look dumb.
Every lasting scar shows us what it's taken to be who we are.
Seperate yourself from anyone like that. Dont associate with that type of person. Walk away from the situation with the attitude that you are to good to fight or bully because fighting IS for the weak in my expirience and in turn I feel bad for those who feel like they need to bully.
It's usually a mob mentality. Strength in numbers etc. It'd be best not to provoke them since being in a fight can cause enough harm to you but getting into a fight with a lot of people could get you killed
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