I'm new. This is all new for me. I've been suffering with depression for about 7 years now. I never took care of it. I tried to just deal. I thought that this was normal. I took everything out on my wife. I never told her about it cause I was ashamed. Well march of 2011 she left me. We were divorced by september. I found out last week she is in a new relationship. I am crushed.