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S**t Frankie, Cub is fine she'll just be bitchy and pissy at everyone out there. I am not worried about her at all. Hard as iron and sharp as steel..
She does have to SIT in there until 430 today, which I find quite funny and entertaining in a tough love sorta way...
She put herself in there, not me...LMAO!!....
It'll be quiet around here today for sure....YAY!!!!!!!!! :)
I am sorry about it, Eman it is not easy for parent to see that. I hope your day will not be that awful. Keep us posted please......
You never do have a quiet day, huh? I hope everything works out and she gets the help she needs. Looking into a treatment center may be worth your time.
I just caught up on your life eman! Keep your head up! My youngest cousin was similar to your lion cub, she got mixed in with drugs/stripping/alcohol etc. She had to spend a day in juvenile detention once and it set her straight for a bit! You've always been super kind and responsive to me on here, you're in my thoughts. You are great!
Thank you Stacy, Frankie, JJ!! And whomever else I have left out..
Here's the "story"
I read the report, the officer made a vital error..he arrested and detained her for being out past curfew. It is NOT an arrestable offense in this State. Only, ticketable.
Then, he patted her down to find a glass pipe..anything that follows the arrest and detainment (cuffed) of a juvenile, out past 11pm, in inadmissable in court.
They let her go, come home, and she is now on house arrests which mean that I gotta put up with her 17 yr old bullshit!!!
They can not charge her with anything related to the paraphenalia found on person....He made a huge error.
Therefore, no legal cost, or courts, or nothing...just stuck in this house with me!!!..HOLY SHIT!!!....
So, there we have it...I got baby lion cub back. (I did ask them if they could just keep her though)..They said no....
(sigggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh).....BUT, :)
Sounds like you'll have plenty of time to inject your wisdomQuote:
Originally Posted by Enduronman
Take advantage of of it
Having a reallllll hard time getting my head unfogged from all this bullshit!! Can't even read into another thread it all looks like a blur.
I'm sure once I get all these issues resolved, that I will once again be able to get back into helping others as I really looked forward to that daily.
Now, shit has exploded all around me. (the daughters)...plus all these other upcoming doctors visits too.
No, I'm not anxious, depressed, neurotic, or psychotic....just feel like a 215 pound cotton ball. LMAO!!!..
Miss you all much though!!
E-Man... :)
Hey E-Man,
You have helped a lot of people, so now maybe it is your turn to get some help. :)
It sounds like you respond to kid stress like me. I have a hard time controlling my stress response when my kids are involved. I'm concerned for all the stress you are going through while you try to resolve your medical issues. I know that you have limited to no control over their choices. You also might have higher expectations for them than they have for themselves. As a result, there is a lot of friction. This kind of problem is very difficult to solve. Just thinking about my own kids, I find that they tend to back down and become more cooperative and understanding when I don't get upset, yell, and catastrophize. You seem like you are a type-A personality like me, so you might tend to default into the agitated response, like me. Maybe if you completely become a teddy bear when it comes to communicating with your daughters when they and all of their issues enter your presence. Minimum, you will get a physical benefit by remaining calm and preventing the stress hormones from flowing. After all, getting agitated about our kids is a form of anxiety. Giving your body a break from stressing out over the daughters will give you time and energy to work on your health problem. True, this will likely not solve your daughter problems, but it will reduce your stress and it might put your daughters in a position to be more thoughtful about their father who seem to be taking everything very calmly. It might help them change their perceptions of the constant hell they put you through.
Just some thoughts. Something has got to change or something is going to break. Changing your own response to your daughters is likely a key to this.
Love you bruh!
you have been such a strong and amazing help to me although I may not show it at times . You're in my thoughts and prayers. Well wishes to you and your family during this time. Hang in there.... We need you!Quote:
Originally Posted by Enduronman
Eman, how you doin bruh?