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How the hell did I not see this??? I hope you are okay. I hope this I'd more beneficial than bad for her. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this on top of everything else, you are strong as hell(emotionally and physically. Gotta lol at the physically part cuz it's true) And you have us. Shyyyyt. How shitty. I'm sorry
I'm so sorry to hear this :(Quote:
Originally Posted by Enduronman
Ill be praying for the best for you and your family
E-man,Quote:
Originally Posted by Enduronman
Just want to give you a big hug right now!
Thoughts, prayers, and blessings on the way to you!
Hang in there....often good things come out of the shit! I think you know that.
Hoping something gives you reason to smile today!
Pam
Thank you girrrrllliiieeesssss!!!
I will live..and so will she.
Just not where she wants to be...
Have a great day!!
Endurionman... yay :)
Eman I am so sorry, what you were afraid of just came. I am trying to relate but I can not. I guess you are in awful pain at the moment. If you need some friendly chat, I am willing to be there. It is bad hell ..
UPDATE
1. After I heard of this, I emailed a couple of detective friends of mine lastnight..One of them replied to me at 10:39pm and said he will see what he can do.
2. The authorities have just notified me that she will be released to me today at 1pm, on house arrest again BUT, with an electronic monitoring ankle bracelet.
3. This is her 3rd offense, my friends in the local Police Dept. Investigations Division have made this possible for her.
4. In all honesty, I was hoping that they would keep her until she obtained her HS diploma, she needs 10 credits..I don't know if I wanted her back so quickly.
5. I had already accepted the fact, that my daughter may be gone for a very long time considering the circumstances..but now she will return.
6. I had also communicated and kept the local PD informed of both of my daughters drug related activities since March of 2012..to protect my girls from themselves.
7. I now know what it is that they're going to want from my daughter, to know WHO the person is that they really want, not her..she will cooperate, or I will let them take her right back into the Justice Systems and HOLD her until she does....
So, she's coming home in a couple hours...
I was going to ask the Juvenile Probation Officer how much time I would get if I beat the shit outta her with a pillowcase filled with bars of soap?. I still may do that....
Have a great day!!!
Mr. WTF Just Happened Man... LOL!!!! :)
As there are 100 and 3 emotions I feel reading this post... I must say the ending mAde me laugh really hard lolQuote:
Originally Posted by Enduronman
Wishing u and ur girl the best eman!
Eman I'm so proud of you everytime I see you top of the tree like this.
But You know you live a wild life when you say these words as casually as you just did; 'I emailed a couple of detective friends of mine'
Have a great day bruh, stay positive.
Mr. WTF happened.....well isn't that a pile of doo doo dropped in your lap!
Wouldn't wish it on anyone!
Another option....sic puppy on her, might not get you any time!!!! Lol.
But seriously, it all sucks. You obviously love your daughter!!! You're an awesome Dad!
P.
And obviously like everyone here, I wish your family the best. Hope you manage to get some stuff straight, however that needs to happen. :-/Quote:
Originally Posted by amers85
It sounds so overwhelming, but stay strong, E-man! We're all here for you :) ..I'm hoping the best for you and your family.
Well, I got her..again
3rd time that they have just called and said to come and get baby lion cub, this shit is getting old..
But on a bright note, I have had to pay $0 to get her out of detention, all 3 times...
It's because the investigators are working on bigger and better things..the main man.
After that, I had to take her in for a drug assessment and because she had convinced the detention people that she was suicidal..I knew better.
As soon as I got her, let's go to Taco Bell dad, k, thanks..
They've ordered her into IOP intensive outpatient drug rehab, and I have just the place for it too..
Just hoping that they'll cut me some slack on this $70 a week monitoring cost!!!..Shit!!!
I haven't posted today because quite frankly, I didnt sleep lastnight, the screen was a blurrrrr and I couldnt understand a damn thing I was reading..
I may try to jump in there now, after my 2 or 3 hour nap....
She's OK and she's upstairs now with her ankle bracelet that knows everything....YAY!!!....
Have a great night!
Enduronman.. :)
Did. You get the parent of the year award for being able to tolerate this shitQuote:
Originally Posted by Enduronman
But maybe, if it was my boys, I could find the strength to do as you are
Be well, man and get her straight
In a year, she will be the sparkle in your eye
To be honest with you brother,..
She was in, and still is in, the exact same place that I was in,..at the exact same age. (if that sentence makes any sense)...
I was in trouble, about drugs and other things, and getting ready to transfer from jail to a drug rehab...same age.
NOW, I know why I went through all that shit, or, she just thought that she would walk in daddy's footsteps although she didnt know where they were...
That's how I'm able to just blow it off and keep my cool, I know what she's thinking, and how to navigate the systems (all of them) too..
Not sure if glad to have her home yet or not??? There's loud music playing again???...IDK if good or bad, reallllyyyy quiet lastnight! Kinda liked it...rare.
I do hope that she decides to get her head outta her ass and live life the way it was meant to be lived for sure bruh..
Thanks for thinking of us!!
All of you!!
Have a blessed night/day...
E-Man.. :)
Great job Enduromdad!!! You're awesome.
To bad more kids in trouble didn't have dads like you!
Glad to see you back!
I think you're exactly rightQuote:
Originally Posted by needtogetwell
Awwwllll....That's very nice to hear.
Since I was forced to raise them, I am all they have...so I have to be everything that I can be. Yough job!!!
YAY!!!
Have a great day tomorrow friends...:)
Enduronman :D
Lets see what today has in store for me....YAY!!!
Waking my daughter up now, with a song called Dig...full blast. Kinda fun!!!!
Have a great day!!!
Enduronman.... :) :)
Has anyone ever told you that you have a sadistic sense of humour? Lol
Fun to watch!!!!
Hope your day has good things in store for you!!!
Hmmm...Have they told me that???
YES!!! LMAO!!!
The Sheriff was just here to check on Chloe too!!! BAHAAAHAHA!!!! Asked if she had anything in her room that she shouldn't have?? She probably does...but he didn't check.
Exciting already I guess...I had the music up so loud I didn't here his knocking!!! He probably thought "WTF do these people listen too???". It was Dig, by Mudvayne!!! HAAAHAAHA!!! and I have a GIANT SOUND SYSTEM!!! BOOM BOOM....
LOL!
Enduronman.. :)
Hahahahaha very nicely done eman lol
SOOOOOOO....
What SHOULD have been an easy task, to go get my car out of impound turned into this huge out of proportion ordeal...
I take my title, registration, insurance card, and drivers license..everything they needed.
The guy notices that the plates are expired and also my insurance card is expired too...Easy fix? NO...
I had to leave there, go to the insurance company to get a valid insurance card....
Then, to the license branch to get a vaild license plate..(why she got pulled over to begin with but I did not know that they were expired)...
Then,...go back to the impound yard with all this new and unexpected shit,..just to get my car out..
I'm reallllll tired now...naptime!!!
Have a great day!
E-Man.. :)
I was missing you the other day too Eman! I just love reading your posts- you are so encouraging to everyone.Quote:
Originally Posted by Enduronman
Well, doesn't shit roll down hill!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Enduronman
Ok get your ass to some higher ground!!! PRONTO !!!!!!
Hoping you had a really nice nap!
P.
I just wanna scream and yell,,,and kick shit around..
I AM trying to get back to higher ground but holy shit, what a friggin week..
and I got a backache again soooo fuggggiiinnn bad (no reason other than added stress) that I barely walk..
I'm trying to find SOMETHING good to say, add, some encouragement to others, you know..the things that I lovvvveeeee doing but man, LIFE seems to have just took a shit on me!!! WAAAAH WAAAAAAAHHHH!!! LOL!!!
Thank you all for your kindness and support...
Now, I've just become a lurker waiting for something to take this pain away...and clear my mind and thoughts.
Everything happened soooooooo fassstttttt...
E-.......Man. :)
Lurk all you want!!! We will hold down the fort!!!
You can count on us .....
And ...... You might just get promoted to Brigadier General! :P
Yours truly,
Major General Pam
You are here when you can but ultimately we need to take care of ourselves and our familiesQuote:
Originally Posted by Enduronman
Everyone gets a hall pass when they are dealing with things
Once you have sorted your own world, then the advice can you give will be. Done with your complete focus
Being half focused just leads to half ass advice
We can hold the fort down
Get you and your girl well
Then bump us to the back of line where we usually are
Eman is more like this Attachment 1228
I can't wake up!!!!!!!....waaaa. :)
Then go back to sleep silly!!!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Enduronman
Duh! No brainer!!!!
Have a great day E-man!!!
Hello E-man, I read your post and I must say that anxiety does have a way of affecting every aspect of one's life. It almost seems like it finds a way to work itself into every little thing you do or every thing going on in your life at that specific moment. It is truly amazing how universal this disease is. One thing that helped me was "letting go". I know it is very hard for us to do, anxiety sufferers mostly suffer from it due to their inability to let go but think of anxiety as this huge rock in the way of your path in life, arm yourself with a chisel, even if its the smallest chisel you have ever seen, and start slowly but surely chipping away at the rock. Chip, chip, chip until the rock is merely a stone. I hope you had a happy holiday season!
Hey there friend!
Thank you for those encouraging words bruh,..yes, anxiety drops giant stones before me most everyday in varying shapes and sizes for sure.
As you said, just gotta chip away at the issue the best that we can..
Holidays were great and special as this forum even had an energy in it that somehow even made the Holidays that much brighter for me and many of us here...
That energy will return too, you can't be that spirit...
Welcome to the forums and hope to see you around soon too!
Have a great Saturday and upcoming week...
Enduronman... (Chris) :)
SORRY NOT OF MUCH USE TODAY, BACK IS F**KING KILLING ME AGAIN FOR NO REASON...
Thinking of you all anyway!!
Enduronman..:(
Oh Eman my friends just left for Detroit, and after three days I can not do anything , the f**** back is killing me. How many bones is in the spine, what the hell it hurts like hell.................... I think stepping into a pile of shit is a specialty of most people............................................ ...who own huge dogs..................or to be huge dogs, puppies who must eat 4 times a day and shit 4 times a day :)))
Dahila and Eman,
Sorry that you both are having trouble with your backs today!!!
Hope you both feel better soon. Nice to see both of you!
Cheers my friends!!!!
Pam
Hello dear friend,..
Holy shit I thought I was going to cry an hour ago, it is that bad.
I can sit here for a few I think, I wanna see what's going on!!!!
Miss you all!!
and this back ache shit is unreal (Thinking of you Dahl!)...
I've got all the good meds (supposedly) but they are not touching this back pain.
Everywhere else feels great,...I NEED that Butrans Patch medication...
Try to have a great day all!!...
Enduronman.. :)
Sorry Chip and D that you all are having back pain. Feel better!
I am better now, I have special computer chair which is shaped to my back,,,:) sitting for two hours and watching moves was good. somehow the pain is easy now. Running around the house, the city, and having all this fun, not time to sit and rest, just made it very painful. I had glorious 3 days full of happiness, now I rest and wait the pain to go away.
Eman can you take a batch with the epson salts? It helps me, to relax the muscles....
Needletogetbetter you know what is back pain about?
Eman I hope you get better, just try to relax no to tense the muscles because it does not help, if anything it makes the pain worse...:)
I certainly do know what back pain is all about! Wish I didn't! LolQuote:
Originally Posted by Dahila
I too love my Epsom salt bath really helps, as does sleeping on the floor, even though I have a firm good mattress, the floor I provides relief when it's really bad.
Glad you're feeling better and had a good time with your guests!
Jeez I remember my mom sleeping on the thick board under the sheets. I had never picture myself doing it::((Quote:
Originally Posted by needtogetwell
The most relieve I find on my mattress which was insanely expensive, but worth every dollar. It is made of layers of different sponges and is kind of firm under memory foam. It is the only place I can lie down without pain. No sofas, not other bed just this one...