Looking for a friend

Oooh I like spicy people :)

I find that spicy people give me a sore throat if i eat to much of them..:p

Yeah don't eat them...

I as well was a very happy go lucky person, I had a lot of friends in high school, but if you were to look at me now you would say I don't have any. Thank goodness for my family though and I have a huge family so my framily has become my friends :) I am not saying that is a bad thing, but at the same time they must find it hard to understand me & this thing called anxiety :( they have never judged me which is great. But some days I would like to talk with someone who is t my family :) so I'm here to chat with as well as ll the other wonderful people on here :)

Yes...you can be my friend. It's important to reach out.

Enjoy your day,
Zenlover

Forgiveness is more rewarding and spans time better than the expectations we are dogmatically taught that define relationships. I find most upstanding terms associated with value and virtue no more than words designed to entice and control. Invested relationships ensue with an emotional roller coaster that winds up an addiction that creates and feeds a host of predispositions.

I fuck up a lot of the time, however I don't hold grudges and am quick to forgive. I find such traits much more valuable than most terms typically used to inform what determines friendship or not. My level of effort is often overshadowed by the amount of times I fall.

I get what you mean about Loyalty Dahila, but imo I can't help but think its a word best left to the Royal Family and all other patriotic establishments. Loyalty is a deceptive word that does more to harbor ill will; despite its claim to rewards and enrichment. Kindness and compassion that lends itself to forgive innumerable times is imo the key to relationships that not only last, but are more meaningful.

Whilst it may appear that some of us are on the same path, many of us are not. Most certainly, none of us should ever be bounded by terms that dictate one way or the other.

I hope in time that loyalty becomes less of an issue and that you will some day be more accepting of the imperfect me.

Best Wishes
Dave.

Oh Dave, :))
Have you ever had a dog? Dog's are loyal to owners even if they are abused and treated badly in general. This is what I think is loyalty. I think I am not wrong ; is that a beginning of conversation? I hope so, I hope so:)
I am accepting the "imperfect" you. I would never use the word of Imperfect. What is perfect? There is not norm...........;)

Lol, yet another classic cop out term ... "Imperfect World" no matter what language you say these things in ... words often fail miserably. So true. TY for the clarification. No wrong or right fo me ... just feeling this for that. "I don't know". Famous John Kabat Zin phrase. ;)

Back on topic:

So yea, if any new members or old members are looking for friends, feel free to add me..:)

So sorry my dear friend ...