What BS - I knew your issue did not even make sense when I first read it.
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Originally Posted by Kyle's Weight Gain
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What BS - I knew your issue did not even make sense when I first read it.
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Originally Posted by Kyle's Weight Gain
We never have much luck on this forum with guys named Kyle, do we?
; ) Too funnyQuote:
Originally Posted by jessed03
I do react to Kyle like crazy ;))) no Kyle is like red flag up:))Quote:
Originally Posted by jessed03
BAN ALL KYLE'S! LMAO!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Dahila
On another note, I spoke to my gf last night. (just thinking about this is making me very tense now)....grrrr
She received the results of her biopsy. They have to take more of her cervix out in November. There was a problem, although they didn't say over the phone what that problem is.
My anxiety is through the roof when I'm typing this, thinking about this, and I feel helpless of course too. Nothing I can do about it. Just hope that she's ok.
Thank God I am going to see a Psych today! I'm going to need some assistance in coping skills, and or medications too.
Wishing you all a great day and hopes that mine is too. Somehow!
E-Man.
Eman she will be ok!!!! lets hope everything is going to be ok. It helps.
You're probably right Dahl.
It's just very stressful, an issue creating tension, apprehension, and fears in a man that generally doesn't fear things..
I just had woken back up again from a morning nap, I think, and realized that it is my empathy that is tearing me apart inside. Highly empathetic person. Makes me feel like a pathetic person.
I also remembered something strange too. Not sure why yet.
When I was deathly sick in December of 2012, severe pain, ataxia, seizures, bedridden, couldn't even speak at one time, my girlfriend went out Christmas shopping at the mall until 3 am...
JOYFULLY, HAPPILY, MERRILY...
And then commented about it on Facebook, and told me about how fun, enjoyable, fulfilling, this shopping trip was to her.
What is my point here?
I also recall thinking to myself that there is no friggin way that I could or would be happily fulfillingly merrily be enjoying any friggin thing at Christmas, If She was in My Same Position and Health.
Bingo!
Now that it is she that is in potentially serious health troubles, I OVER EMPATHIZE and now I AM WORRIED, FILLED WITH FEARS, FILLED WITH APPREHENSION, FILLED WITH STRESS...
Empathy and its disadvantages, curses, tortures and torments at work.
I must learn very very quickly, how to turn this off while still remaining to be the caring, compassionate, kind, sensitive person that I really am.
MY life depends on my ability to be able to perform and over come this issue.
I feel as if I could have a nervous breakdown at the moment.
Thank you for reading.
Have a marvelous day!
E-Man :)
Didn't you have an appt today? How did it go?
So here's my lesson for today:
Couple months ago I bought a new car. Now immediately began obsessing that I'd get a door ding in the supermarket lot or wherever. So for say two months every time I come out with groceries, etc I lean over the passenger side and look for my ding.
So, you don't have to be a sleuth to figure this one out. As I pulled into the market today I parked next to this car that was crooked, and I felt weird but as we all do I ignored my feelings, so I came out 15 min later, did the obligatory lean and looksee, and lo and behold....
There was my ding !! Finally !
My old car I could've cared less and for 10 years no ding.
So now I'm sick about it.
to be the caring, compassionate, kind, sensitive person that I really am. Yes, yes it is what i value in the person. Being that way we suffer, it comes with the package, but I would not change myself in a dot. Do not dare to change it too Eman!!! I am like you and proud of it, even everyone especially my partner criticize it. I do not care, I think to be someone like that there is a price to pay and that's fine. Eman it is why I enjoy every contact with you and admire you :)) Everything is going to be ok. Facing the fears is the worst, but usually the events are not as painful as our worry about the outcome. Your gf will be ok!!
Look at the post above. After I bumped my car a few times, I stopped caring. Hubby is telling that i am not going to get the new one, so be it:))) dents and scratches:)) who cares, it is not worth the worry :)
I saw your post when it was just one line long. I thought to myself, it had to be the shortest post of yours I'd ever seen. I felt quite short-changed! I'm glad you added to it. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Im-Suffering