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jwood
02-24-2012, 04:27 PM
Hello everyone, It's comforting to know I am not alone when it comes to anxiety. I think I have the most severe cases of all. (wait is that anxiety talking again???) okay so let me explain to you I have went from having social anxiety which I still have to EXTREME health anxiety. Seriously, for the past five months I swear I have been living life daily thinking I am going to die soon. It all started last year around dec. I found out I was preggo with my 3rd(yay) suppose to be exciting right???? Well about a week later I had blood work done showing high liver enzymes!!! So ontop of me being emotional about pregnancy I can not tell you how I thought that christmas was going to be my last. I am a severe internet reader to the MAX. I read high liver enzymes could be serious life or death kinda thing. Four about 5 weeks I had them rechecked and rechecked they went up and I thought the worst. Finally they went down to normal. Found out it was FREAKIN MONO!!!! but when the doctor told me it was mono I thought she was lying to me.Okay sooooooooooooooooooo after I got the news that it went down I was like WHEEEEEWWW started living life again literally. UP until about 5 days ago.......I noticed I have a lot of moles on my body I mean a lot. Some look crazy weird and others seem normal. So what do I do???? YEP read all around the internet for about 12 hours a day.......MELANOMA!!!!! Swear I know one of these moles are it. Well couldn't see a doc went and seen a nurse prectisioner however you spell it. She said they looked fine. I was good for about 30 minutes. Than went home read more and more and more. To the point I went to a whole nother clinic and seen a very very very nice nurse prac. again. I told her about my anxiety and she was nice enough to look at all my moles and said that she thought it was normal also. She told me that If I want some removed she would be more than happy to have it done. However the doctor that does them is gone for a month go figure. So I am going to see a dermatologist in 2 weeks. For a third approval. I am a bit better today after speaking with her. But my anxiety is always maybe she missed something. STUPID is it not. Well I have 2 kids and one on the way and every fear is that I am not going to see them grow up. Thankfully my husband is so wonderfull he always says it will all be okay, but he puts up a lot of bs from me on a regular basis. He doesn't fully understand what anxiety does to you. I wouldn't expect him to since he doesn't have it lol. I am here to get to know others with similar anxiety's makes me feel better talking with others that go through on a daily basis that I go through. All I want is to lead a normal life without daily fears of death and health. If you have any tips it would be great. THanks for reading!!!

alankay
02-24-2012, 04:49 PM
I used to have that(heart anxiety) but when I got treated for my anxiety per se it pretty much went away. Fears are but a symptom of anxiety anyway. Even if you got it checked by more folks you'd still worry. You need to get treatment for anxiety in general not so much just for health related things. This should be done by both a doc and counselor. Alankay.

Simon DeeJay SKidoodle
02-24-2012, 05:41 PM
i have a mole thats turned white i went to the doctors he said its a skin wart i also have a little lump in my neck he said its a lymph node i also smoke but please dont take my word go and see a doctor and dont let the internet brainwash you and let you believe your somehow dying i do this.