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Lola
10-10-2011, 04:13 PM
Hey guys!
Well where should I start? Where did IT actually start? I'm just going to tell you my story and hope that some of you can relate to it and maybe even reply. :)
I moved to another country for my studies last year in September. Everything was fine for one year. I am a really social person, I love being with people and that's why I had and still have lots of friends. So my new life at college was perfect. The only problem was that I was constantly thinking about my family back home and I was having these really apocalyptic thoughts concerning them. I was always making up these scenarios in which they would die in an earthquake or something like that and I would never see them again. But until a couple of weeks ago I never had like real physical symptoms. I went home for summer break which lasted two months (while I was home I never had any negative thoughts) and then in September, so last month, I returned to college.
It all started during lectures when I felt I was getting sick and I was really afraid I would start throwing up in class and make a fool of myself. I always felt a lump in my throat and had a really funny taste in my mouth. And that's why I started drinking water, like obsessively drinking water. I can't leave home without my water bottle and I always fill it up between classes. Nowadays I'm really afraid of going to class and that's why I started skipping lots of classes. When I go to class I always try to sit near an exit so that I could rush out if anything happens.
The good thing was that I only had this feeling during class. Now I have it almost all the time. Actually only after lunch. I wake up and everything is fine, I attend my morning lectures but then, after lunch it gets worse. My head feels really fuzzy, my arms and legs sometimes tingle, I always have the feeling I'm going to faint and I'm really afraid of having a lethal disease and worst of all I get really scared because of this and that's why my heart starts racing.
Once I think I almost had a panic attack or maybe I had one but didn't get it. I was lying in bed, watching a movie on my laptop and then my legs started tingling, my ears were pounding, I felt sick and I was really afraid that something bad is going to happen (like I was going to die or have a stroke and my roommate would have to rush me to the hospital. But how would she even notice I'm having a stroke?! I was definitely going to lie there on the floor until the morning. That was my train of thoughts.) So then I got up really fast and started walking up and down my room, breathing in and out. That really helped and I managed to calm down. I fell asleep with the lights turned on that night...
I hate it! I don't actually know what to do. The thing is that I've really missed home during the last couple of weeks. I never had this last year but now the only solution I see is to go back home and give everything up. The only problem is that I love my friends and my life here. So this is why I'm actually torn between two worlds. What do you think I should do? I don't actually know if anyone is going to reply but writing this down really helped. Thanks for reading through my ginormous post.

victor.gatto
10-10-2011, 05:55 PM
i would read your ginormous post anyday of the week
lola, i feel exactly the same, its terrible isnt it.

im at work at the moment and i cant even concentrate, all my nails are bitten cos im so stressed, i really dont know what to do.

One minute i worry about drinking too much water, because of water intoxication ( i heard dont go over 4 liters in a day )
and the next minute i have a brain tumor -.- i got an xray and i was fine
next minute its heart disease-.- got my heart checked yesterday and its fine

i got rushed to ER on sunday night for a ridiculously massive panic attack

its the worst feeling in the world, but knowing your not the only one makes me smile (as evil as it seems ) im so happy i have someone to talk to about it.

Lola
10-11-2011, 03:11 AM
Thabks for replying! well my day has been fine until now and I hope it will sty this way. I'm kind of scared I'll have an attack cause I have a really important professional meeting today. But I find it reasduring to know that it's all in my head. I try telling myself that I should control the anxiety and not let it control me. I know I'm strong and I know I'm just in a bad place right now but it will all pass. I'll keep you up to date on how my day went.

Hope your day will be good as well. :) just be the boss of it and you can and WILL conquer it!!!! :)