of-august
08-23-2011, 01:17 PM
Why is it no matter how hard I try to do anything it ends up being horrible?
Everything I do is picked apart by my parents, mostly by my mom. Then when I have mental problems it is my fault. "It's just my hormones. It's because I'm too hard on myself. It's not us, it's you."
Today it was something small. I put the dishes away like my mom asked, and I left a cupboard door open. She was angry that everything she does is for me and I can't do anything for her.
Things like this start the tightness in my chest and the sick feeling in my stomach. The fact I can't do something as simple as put plates and cups away right. I won't be able to relax for many hours after this now. Does anyone know how to calm down/relax? Why does my mom get frustrated with me?
Everything I do is picked apart by my parents, mostly by my mom. Then when I have mental problems it is my fault. "It's just my hormones. It's because I'm too hard on myself. It's not us, it's you."
Today it was something small. I put the dishes away like my mom asked, and I left a cupboard door open. She was angry that everything she does is for me and I can't do anything for her.
Things like this start the tightness in my chest and the sick feeling in my stomach. The fact I can't do something as simple as put plates and cups away right. I won't be able to relax for many hours after this now. Does anyone know how to calm down/relax? Why does my mom get frustrated with me?