joobjoob
08-13-2010, 08:35 AM
Hello all!
This is my first post. Wow I'm so glad that there are other people that share the same problems as me. When I'm in my own circle of friends/work colleagues I feel like I'm the only one!
I'm looking for others folks opinions or advice on how they overcame or manage the same problems as me.
I'm 26 years old and since I was 19 I've suffered to varying levels with social anxiety which is usually followed or made worse by excessive sweating. I have been to counselling and was taught CBT methods to control it. It worked slightly so I then tried hypnotherapy which was a big help and allowed me manage my problems.
However in the past 8 weeks my anxiety has become completely out of control. I get very anxious just sitting on a bus and have even started getting off a few stops early, either due to a flight or fight moment or because I've become so hot and bothered that I'm dripping with sweat. It's never been this bad before.
I went out for a meal with my partners family 2 weeks ago to a very nice restaurant. These are people that I'm totally comfortable with and have no problems being around. However after a few mins of sitting at the table, I start getting anxious then I start sweating. I was so uncomfortable that I went outside for some fresh air. While I was outside my mind was racing and I was actually on the verge of calling a taxi and going home without even telling the people I was with! As with all these situations, once I've been in the same surroundings for a while I will eventually cool down and relax. I used to be able to trigger this relaxation myself after being taught this during hypnotherapy but I've lost all control now and it's worse than ever.
I went to the doctors and explained the situation. My doc has put me on beta blockers to try and reduce some of the symptoms. I've only been taking them for 2 days so I'm waiting to see if there are any results. I think the sweating the worst bit. If I could stop that I would feel so much more at ease.
I just need to talk about this to someone as my partner doesn't understand. He has never been through this before and doesn't know what to say. He tries his best but I know he's clueless about it.
Any similar stories or advice?
If you've made it to the end, thats for taking the time to read my rant :)
This is my first post. Wow I'm so glad that there are other people that share the same problems as me. When I'm in my own circle of friends/work colleagues I feel like I'm the only one!
I'm looking for others folks opinions or advice on how they overcame or manage the same problems as me.
I'm 26 years old and since I was 19 I've suffered to varying levels with social anxiety which is usually followed or made worse by excessive sweating. I have been to counselling and was taught CBT methods to control it. It worked slightly so I then tried hypnotherapy which was a big help and allowed me manage my problems.
However in the past 8 weeks my anxiety has become completely out of control. I get very anxious just sitting on a bus and have even started getting off a few stops early, either due to a flight or fight moment or because I've become so hot and bothered that I'm dripping with sweat. It's never been this bad before.
I went out for a meal with my partners family 2 weeks ago to a very nice restaurant. These are people that I'm totally comfortable with and have no problems being around. However after a few mins of sitting at the table, I start getting anxious then I start sweating. I was so uncomfortable that I went outside for some fresh air. While I was outside my mind was racing and I was actually on the verge of calling a taxi and going home without even telling the people I was with! As with all these situations, once I've been in the same surroundings for a while I will eventually cool down and relax. I used to be able to trigger this relaxation myself after being taught this during hypnotherapy but I've lost all control now and it's worse than ever.
I went to the doctors and explained the situation. My doc has put me on beta blockers to try and reduce some of the symptoms. I've only been taking them for 2 days so I'm waiting to see if there are any results. I think the sweating the worst bit. If I could stop that I would feel so much more at ease.
I just need to talk about this to someone as my partner doesn't understand. He has never been through this before and doesn't know what to say. He tries his best but I know he's clueless about it.
Any similar stories or advice?
If you've made it to the end, thats for taking the time to read my rant :)