View Full Version : How do you cope up in public if your a failure?
Psychic24
07-22-2010, 05:51 PM
Yeah generally I call my self a failure...A BIG FAT FAILURE....I usually don't talk much, have small group of friends...never been in public much...
I think I'm afraid of showing my self...and I have noticed this cause when ever I have some sort of success I feel happy and am socializing but when ever I hit some kind of failure...I go down...very down.
I don't speak with anyone in the home or outside...Hell I rarely go outside...what I want to ask is how do you over come or get over failure and resume proper life and socialization? and lets just add the the public is not very helpful around me >>.
louiseevans222
07-23-2010, 02:19 PM
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murdoch
05-03-2011, 06:33 AM
Sometimes I also go through such moments and in such testing times one need to have some impressive motivator by your side to keep your mood on the high.
Robbed
05-03-2011, 02:41 PM
Whether you succeed in something or lose in something, you should only see it as an outcome of your work...
If you succeed in something just think of it as youve learnt and developed, if youve failed in something think of it as a process of development...
Also remember that blind luck plays an important part in whether you succeed or fail. As an example, let's say you go to some sort of social gathering. Maybe you might just end up off by yourself somewhere. Or maybe you might meet someone interesting, and talk with them for a long time. If the second scenario happens rather than the first one, it is often less because of what you learned or developed, and more the result of simply running into the right person. In other words, luck.
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