fearandanxiety
08-13-2009, 09:30 AM
19 year old virgin and my first sexual experience(nonsex) was in college with my 19 year old gf after 1 month. shes seems like an honest person and tells me that she only had sex once at 15 with a guy that she was in love with. She said she knew he was a virgin 100 percent because he didn't know what to do, his parents told her that they were really happy that their son finally liked a girl, they hanged out with each other during school every possible minute and after school and talked on the phone for hours, she knew everything about him she could tell how he felt on the phone by his tone variations.
Part 2: heres the technical part
doctors from medhelp who are certified as the best doctors of america having years of std experience hundreds of publications on it and part of the cdc tell me that kissing and fingering(Which is all i did with her) is no risk at all because saliva enzymes and outside temperature/air kill hiv regardless of cuts/sores/gum disease. yet i cant accept this 100 percent because i found this one case that a woman mighta got hiv from kissing her partner they both had bleeding gums. so im thinking what if somehow i fall into that case since its possible, what if i had a spot where there were no saliva on my unnoticed cut/sore and the air somehow wasnt there PLEASE HELP ME!
Part 2: heres the technical part
doctors from medhelp who are certified as the best doctors of america having years of std experience hundreds of publications on it and part of the cdc tell me that kissing and fingering(Which is all i did with her) is no risk at all because saliva enzymes and outside temperature/air kill hiv regardless of cuts/sores/gum disease. yet i cant accept this 100 percent because i found this one case that a woman mighta got hiv from kissing her partner they both had bleeding gums. so im thinking what if somehow i fall into that case since its possible, what if i had a spot where there were no saliva on my unnoticed cut/sore and the air somehow wasnt there PLEASE HELP ME!