lembo
02-08-2009, 10:21 AM
Hi I am a 29 year old women. I am an anxious person who lacks selft esteem and confidence due to parents being over protective and questioning everything I do.
When I was 21 I met a guy who was 33 - my dad went mad and told me I had to finish with him or move out. I have always wanted to try nursing but was told that it wasnt the right thing for me.
My dad has had a control over me even worse since losing my mum; I iron, clean up after tea etc and give up my plans with my fiance to clean for my father all just to keep the peace.
I've been with my fiance for 4 1/2 years now and I love him to bits. We have been looking at houses for the past year and none have proven to be the right one. For the last 4 1/2 years my partner has been made to sleep on the couch when he stays at mine, when I am at his parents we are allowed to share a bed.
Because this situation cannot carry on any longer and is making us both miserable we have now decided to rent for 6 months. I'm really worried that I won't be able to make the move out and whether me and my fiance will be able to live together.
I have not been happy in any job that I've had and feel that I could do better, the only reason I end up in these jobs is because my father tells me I should apply for them. Every thing I do I worry what my father would think, its really driving me mad.
Thank you
Sarah
When I was 21 I met a guy who was 33 - my dad went mad and told me I had to finish with him or move out. I have always wanted to try nursing but was told that it wasnt the right thing for me.
My dad has had a control over me even worse since losing my mum; I iron, clean up after tea etc and give up my plans with my fiance to clean for my father all just to keep the peace.
I've been with my fiance for 4 1/2 years now and I love him to bits. We have been looking at houses for the past year and none have proven to be the right one. For the last 4 1/2 years my partner has been made to sleep on the couch when he stays at mine, when I am at his parents we are allowed to share a bed.
Because this situation cannot carry on any longer and is making us both miserable we have now decided to rent for 6 months. I'm really worried that I won't be able to make the move out and whether me and my fiance will be able to live together.
I have not been happy in any job that I've had and feel that I could do better, the only reason I end up in these jobs is because my father tells me I should apply for them. Every thing I do I worry what my father would think, its really driving me mad.
Thank you
Sarah