Ryobi
01-08-2009, 09:25 PM
Wow, I'm stoked to find this forum...
I looked for a forum like this a few years ago, but there were none...
I have social anxiety. I don't want to say disorder, because I'm tired of the world telling me that I'm defective.
I'm on disability and have been for a few years. I really struggle with the stigma associated with being on disability.
I live in an area that is really tough and violent. It really gets to me at times. I'm always kind of the odd man out. I tend to get bullied a lot. I act really tough, belligerant, and defient, to keep people off of me.
It seems, if you show weakness were I live, you tend to attract predators, but acting tough also tends to scare away decent people.
I tend to be misunderstood a lot.
I moved around a lot when I was growing up, and I had several abusive step-parents, and step-boyfriend, step-girlfriends.
I was a good looking guy, and I was athletic. Many people thought of me as a snob.
I was dealing with the anxiety by smoking and chewing tobacco, and now I am afraid I may have cancer but, I am not sure. I have an appointment in about 10 days with an ENT. I was doing a ton of nicotine, But I also tend to clench my mouth and tongue so....hopefully it's that and not cancer. I kind of want a second chance....
The last few years, I've been really bitter and angry. I was working crappy jobs, housekeeping .ect and I fought to get to university, and once I was at UNI, I worked my behind off. Not only was U dealing with the social anxiety, but I was also dealing with a herniated disk in my back. Needless to say, class was torture. But I fought. I wanted a better life.
After graduating, I just kept failing at every job- for one reason or another. Either I got hurt, or I could not deal with the anxiety.
I hate the stigma of disability. People seems to judge based upon their own life, rather than acknowledging, some have a longer race to run than others.
I worked so hard to succeed-harder than most. It's almost as though, the harder I work, the more likely I am to fail...
I'm single and have been for years. I can't seam to go out on Dates. I hate being single.
Man, I don't know what the answers are....Oh well, LOL.
I looked for a forum like this a few years ago, but there were none...
I have social anxiety. I don't want to say disorder, because I'm tired of the world telling me that I'm defective.
I'm on disability and have been for a few years. I really struggle with the stigma associated with being on disability.
I live in an area that is really tough and violent. It really gets to me at times. I'm always kind of the odd man out. I tend to get bullied a lot. I act really tough, belligerant, and defient, to keep people off of me.
It seems, if you show weakness were I live, you tend to attract predators, but acting tough also tends to scare away decent people.
I tend to be misunderstood a lot.
I moved around a lot when I was growing up, and I had several abusive step-parents, and step-boyfriend, step-girlfriends.
I was a good looking guy, and I was athletic. Many people thought of me as a snob.
I was dealing with the anxiety by smoking and chewing tobacco, and now I am afraid I may have cancer but, I am not sure. I have an appointment in about 10 days with an ENT. I was doing a ton of nicotine, But I also tend to clench my mouth and tongue so....hopefully it's that and not cancer. I kind of want a second chance....
The last few years, I've been really bitter and angry. I was working crappy jobs, housekeeping .ect and I fought to get to university, and once I was at UNI, I worked my behind off. Not only was U dealing with the social anxiety, but I was also dealing with a herniated disk in my back. Needless to say, class was torture. But I fought. I wanted a better life.
After graduating, I just kept failing at every job- for one reason or another. Either I got hurt, or I could not deal with the anxiety.
I hate the stigma of disability. People seems to judge based upon their own life, rather than acknowledging, some have a longer race to run than others.
I worked so hard to succeed-harder than most. It's almost as though, the harder I work, the more likely I am to fail...
I'm single and have been for years. I can't seam to go out on Dates. I hate being single.
Man, I don't know what the answers are....Oh well, LOL.