Anxieties and love life

[Naor]

Hey there everybody!
I would like to ask you, how does the anxiety disturb you in your love lives?
Does it disturb you at all?
And the most important thing, how can it be controlled??

Thanks!

[Chantj]

Absolutely hurting my love life right now. I’m more concerned with my phobias and anxieties instead of enjoying the time I have right now with her!

[Naor]

Absolutely hurting my love life right now. I’m more concerned with my phobias and anxieties instead of enjoying the time I have right now with her!

Chantj thanks for your answer!
May I ask if you met her through Tinder or through "face to face" situation?

[Chantj]

We have been together 7 years, face to face. Bought a home and started a life together. And currently I’m convinced I have ruined everything

[MainerMikeBrown]

I don't meet many women, especially since I'm on state disability due to bi polar disorder and PTSD (which is considered an anxiety disorder) and don't have a good paying job because of it.

Of course, you don't have to have a great career in order to meet girls if your a guy. But I feel that if I try to meet women, I'll get rejected a lot because I don't have a paying job.

So that's how my issues disturb my love life, or lack thereof.